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my <3 is breaking for all the m/c's I have been reading lately

Lina1030Lina1030
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I am so sorry to read that...and sad for your loss....you are all in my thoughts and prayers.  I know what you are going through and I wish I could take away the pain or better yet that you never would have to feel it.  It also makes me realize how common miscarriages are, especially 1st pregnancies (people here and in real life).  I had a miscarriage at 21 weeks w/my first but that was due to an incompetent cervix.  Then I had my daughter in Oct 2001.  In January 2010 I had an early miscarriage at 6 1/2 weeks or so, a week after finding out we were expecting.  Then DS came in November 2010.  It makes me worry every time I am pregnant...it is not just the end of 1st tri mark that I worry about since I had one in my 2nd trimester (but the cerclage they place around 12-15 weeks helps reinforce my cervix to carry the baby full term).  I am a person of faith, and I know God gives us only what we can handle and everything happens for a reason.  Maybe it is a way of saying something was wrong w/the baby, and a blessing in disguise (I can say that now after the fact, in that moment it is so hard to see it, but looking back I do truly believe that).

 

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  • happy2be1102happy2be1102
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    I am so sorry to read that...and sad for your loss....you are all in my thoughts and prayers.  I know what you are going through and I wish I could take away the pain or better yet that you never would have to feel it.  It also makes me realize how common miscarriages are, especially 1st pregnancies (people here and in real life).  I had a miscarriage at 21 weeks w/my first but that was due to an incompetent cervix.  Then I had my daughter in Oct 2001.  In January 2010 I had an early miscarriage at 6 1/2 weeks or so, a week after finding out we were expecting.  Then DS came in November 2010.  It makes me worry every time I am pregnant...it is not just the end of 1st tri mark that I worry about since I had one in my 2nd trimester (but the cerclage they place around 12-15 weeks helps reinforce my cervix to carry the baby full term).  I am a person of faith, and I know God gives us only what we can handle and everything happens for a reason.  Maybe it is a way of saying something was wrong w/the baby, and a blessing in disguise (I can say that now after the fact, in that moment it is so hard to see it, but looking back I do truly believe that).

     

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  • MrsGreen620MrsGreen620 member
    Agreed - all of these ladies and their families are in my daily prayers.
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    Your T&Ps mean more than you can even imagine. Thank you.

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  • Lina1030Lina1030
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    Your T&Ps mean more than you can even imagine. Thank you.

    ((HUGS))  In reading your siggy..."what happens next" is to have faith and hope that you will soon have a beautiful healthy baby (babies) in your arms.  Just take care of yourself and your hubby and know that it all just takes time and it is not in our hands.

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  • GrneyedItalianGrneyedItalian
    AWW Lina this is so sweet.  I had a miscarriage very early on and it is amazing how fast you get attached and the pain you feel is unbearable.   I just kept asking why?  I was so angry.   But I always have to tell myself God has a plan,  Now when I worry I try to just have faith and put it in God's hands, because sometimes you just have to let go and let God.  :)
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    AWW Lina this is so sweet.  I had a miscarriage very early on and it is amazing how fast you get attached and the pain you feel is unbearable.   I just kept asking why?  I was so angry.   But I always have to tell myself God has a plan,  Now when I worry I try to just have faith and put it in God's hands, because sometimes you just have to let go and let God.  :)

    This is so true.  You must allow yourself to feel all the emotions...it is part of the healing process.  It took me probably until I was pg w/my daughter (almost a year later) to be able to look at a baby or pregnant woman and not want to crawl in a hole and cry.  With my 2nd m/c we were devastated but I trusted that God had a purpose for not allowing this pg to continue and knew we had more blessings ahead.  You really do have to let go and let God work his magic :)

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  • katylady09katylady09 member
    This is so encouraging. I too, have been so sad for all of the miscarriages I've been reading about. I feel their pain and wish they didn't have to experience it. I miscarried this past May after only 4 days of knowing I was pregnant. It still breaks my hear that I could fall so in love with something in just 4 days and then have it taken away. Prayers for everyone!!

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  • PinkSapphiresPinkSapphires member
    I feel terrible as well. I wish there was more that we could do. Ladies, you are in our thoughts.
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  • angiekay84angiekay84 member
    I feel the same way.  Reading this post actually made me teary.  When I read BlindVictory's initial post of m/c, I was shaken because we were almost the same amount of time along, to the day.  I realized how m/c could happen to anyone at anytime.  Blind, I read your profile and I'm so happy to see you have a great hubby to support you! I know your fur-babies will have wonderful human brothers or sisters to play with soon.  Keep the faith and hope for the best.  I agree God won't give you more than you can handle. 
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