Can I butt in and ask a napping question? I SAH with my 10 month old son. DH and I are starting to talk about trying for another. DS is still waking up at least once a night and I usually take a nap during one of his naps. DH knows he will have to step up a little bit more if we have another and I will have to make some sacrifices as well. My lack of sleep is the biggest thing holding us back at this point.
For how long did your child take regular naps? (Or if s/he is still taking naps, how old is s/he?)
Re: Nap question
I would definitely recommend some form of sleep training.
My 3+yr old is still taking naps most days. They both sleep 12hrs at night- and both nap for about 2hrs a day (baby sometimes more)
Edit- I can count on two hands how many times I have had them napping at the same time in the last 11 months.
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My DD is napping still (22 months). I don't plan on ending them soon. Even if she stops napping, there will still be "quiet time" in her room.
I can usually get them to nap at the same time 4/5 days of the work week (I'm more slack on the weekend since DH is home to help, but on the weekdays I need the break). Sometimes DD's nap is a little later than it would be if she were an only child. Sometimes it means I have to wake DS from his morning nap after only an hour so that he'll go down for his afternoon nap at the same time as DD.
My almost 18mo is still taking a nap a day.
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I know all babies/kids are different. My BFF has 3 sons that are a total of 3 years apart and she is able to get them to nap at the same time once a day. She is supermom though! (You have to be with that many babies.)
Thank you for all of the replies. It is encouraging.
My DS took 2 naps until about a week and a half ago. He'll be 21 months next Friday. He now takes just one but it still getting used to the idea (as am I--one less break for me!). He did not STTN until 18 months old though.
You obviously have to do what you want and think is best for your family, but as pp said I would suggest sleep training for your current DS to at least get a good night sleep at night, even if naps shorter/end before baby #2 arrives. I think it would help you feel a lot more at ease about adding to your family. Good luck!
My 3 1/2 year old is still napping, but that's because he gets up by 6am every day so he's tired by 1pm.
Both of mine nap at the same time every day for about 1.5-2 hours. They've been on the same afternoon nap schedule since DD was 7 or 8 months.