TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

My sad realization of the day...

I am the only one in my department (15 people - 3 men & 12 women) who does not have children.  There are others who have not given birth, they have step kids.

I don't think I have ever felt so alone.

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  • imageRawr08:

    I am the only one in my department (15 people - 3 men & 12 women) who does not have children YET.  There are others who have not given birth, they have step kids.

    I don't think I have ever felt so alone.

    Fixed that for you. (hugs)

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  • imageheathergirl67:
    imageRawr08:

    I am the only one in my department (15 people - 3 men & 12 women) who does not have children YET.  There are others who have not given birth, they have step kids.

    I don't think I have ever felt so alone.

    Fixed that for you. (hugs)

    Aw thanks hun.  Made me tear up a little.  So hard to not lose hope!

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    TTC #1 since 6.10
    SA #1=Agglutination SA #2= Everything perfect
    HSG= All clear & perfect
    Currently learning to live Child Free
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  • Oh sweetheart, it's OK. You're not alone. Not by a long shot. And you're headed down the path which will very likely give you what you want most. {HUGS}

    12 long, hard years of TTC-
    Miscarriages, losses, lots of treatments & drugs & IVF


    Natural BFP (WTF?!) - 06/04/11 ~ lots of complication and drama, but sweet baby Adele born 02/07/12!

    BFP #million -another girl for us! EDD - 05-08-15 (but will come early)

  • Sending hugs, you aren't alone. It really stinks when you realize you are the only one in either work/family/friends without kids.

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • Aw thanks guys!

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    1st BFP = m/c 4.21.08 @ 7W5D (and divorce)
    TTC #1 since 6.10
    SA #1=Agglutination SA #2= Everything perfect
    HSG= All clear & perfect
    Currently learning to live Child Free
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic
    ?My NTNP Chart! ?My Blog!?Follow Me on Pinterest
    CLICK to give care & food to animals in need -
    ?Big Girls have babies too!?
    ??Success/pregnant after everything welcome - FHs need not apply??
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  • (((hugs)))

    You are so not alone hun. *muah*


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • *hugs*
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  • That's a really sucky realization to come to. I hope that will change for you soon.
  • I agree with Entropic and Heather.  YET!  It will happen, but these reminders are painful, non-the-less.  Hugs.
    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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  • *hugs* You are definitely not alone, lovey!
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  • ((((hugs))))  That was a hard thing to realize, but I believe that you will be joining them all soon. 
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  • Definitely not alone there girlie, I'm right there with you! ((big hugs))
  • Oh hun, I'm so sorry! It's so incredibly cruel to deal with.

    SUPER DUPER BIG (((HUGS))) coming your way!!!

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    * PG #1 2/26/09: mm/c 4/14/09 at 10w4d | PG #2 8/5/09: mm/c 9/29/09 at 11w3d (boy) * 
    * CP's 4/14/10, 9/1/10, 4/19/11, 5/24/11, 10/14/13, 11/16/13 *
    * Ectopic 1/17/14 - nothing on u/s at 6w4d * 
    * PG #7 BFP 12/21/11 - DD born 8/31/12 * 
    * DH Dx'd with balanced translocation in 2011 *


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