If your child has special diet needs, do you expect your home DCP to provide meals. I have a friend who will be caring for some children (2) and the mom wants him to be fed with ONLY organic food, and has some allergies/intolerances. Friend's family has no food aversions, but will not be getting paid enough to buy the food, and still make money on this job.
She told mom that she will prepare food that mom brings, but not buy her own... WDYT?
Re: Home Daycare and meals....
I agree with the friend. Unless she advertised that she serves organic food, the parents are out of line for thinking they'll get it without paying a premium for it.
As for the allergies/intolerances, it sounds like it will be safest if they bring their own too.
G gets whatever our DCP feeds him. If I want him to have specific foods, I send them - ie, I send LOADS of fruit, yogurt and a cheese string every day.
Our provider participates with the Child and Adult Care Food Program, so she makes a weekly menu and that is what DD eats. The food program provides reimbursements for meals and snacks, so she does buy organic for many things (but obviously not everything).
She is definitely conscious of things like allergies, but if I wanted DD to have something other than what was on the menu, then I would have to provide it. I do not expect my provider to be a short-order cook!
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C doesn't have special diet needs, but we provide all his meals for his in-home daycare (SAHM with 2 kids of her own plus 2 she watches). That's how it's worked from the beginning and I never thought anything of it. I'd actually rather be the one to prepare his meals, so I'm happy. And I would think the other mom should be okay with that.
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