This might be a really really dumb question, but about what week did you all go from feeling just "very" pregnant pregnant to SO-pregnant-that-you're-only-comfy-when-laying-down-pregnant? I'm only 35 weeks and starting to get to the point where I feel so huge and heavy that the bump is getting in the way of a lot - beyond not being able to tie my shoes or walk long distances, I just feel uncomfortable even while I'm sitting here at work typing. Everyone keeps saying the real growth comes toward the end, but how can I possibly get any bigger? So my question is, is it going to get a million times worse from here on out? Or is there some kind of gentle plateau I can look forward to?
I'm still deciding on when to start maternity leave so any answers are helpful!! TIA so much!!!!
Re: When did you start to feel REALLY uncomfortable?
Tuesday... I'm uncomfortable when I walk, sit, eat, lay down. Hoping this baby makes an early arrival!! My last shower is Sunday and I'm not trying to sound selfish but having a hard time looking forward to it b/c I don't want to feel miserable the whole time. I'm also hoping my Dr takes me out of work in a couple a weeks....
Well, there was a point when laying down was one of the only comfortable positions, but at 36 weeks, even laying down became uncomfortable. Forget switching sides - that's painful!
I don't know if it's just us getting incrementally bigger towards the end, I think it's a combination of that plus mentally getting the point where I'm just OVER BEING PREGNANT.
I'm so surprised people are saying they're really uncomfortable at 34 and 35 weeks. For me, week 38 has been the turning point. Before now, I could usually relieve the discomfort somehow--a shower, a nap, lay down, etc. But now it doesn't really matter what I do. Lay down, sit, walk, jump, shower, whatever--it's just painful.
Wow, I feel like a real Debbie Downer . . . my bad.
So here's a laugh for everyone who is done being pregnant:
The other night at about 3am I had to go to the bathroom (shocker, I know!) I had shimmied my way in a very uncomfortable position with pillows behind my head and under my legs so I could get up so easily. Trying to lean on either side was painful and I was trying every which way to get up- Finally after 10 minutes of struggle I finally was able to lift myself and get up out of bed....To which immeditaly my husband says..."SUCCESS!" I was so mad!!!! he watched me struggle and offered no assistance! I didnt want to wake him up and bother him I wake him up enough, but not anymore....he gets woken up if I need help to just change postions now!!!
So yea, needless to say, I'm done...I feel like my belly is stretched to the max, like it cant get any more stretched, although sometimes I almost FEEL the stretching...
2 weeks 2 days to go!!!!!!
For me since this is my second my biggest issue is my hips...they are so swore making it hard to walk, and my va-j-j feels like its been dropped kicked....but other than that I'm ok...
with DD I was fine till she came @ 37 weeks...
I'm doing okay...I feel like I can't really complain yet, and I'll be 35 weeks tomorrow. In the evenings, I'm a little more achey, swollen, and I'm not sleeping all that well, but it's all tolerable at this point. It would be even better if I could get more sleep! But so far, not too bad. Just pregnant.
I think when i hit 34 weeks, i thought to myself, "how am i going to make it 6 more weeks??!!"
but 3 weeks later, i'm still making it... thinking to myself "how am i going to make it 3 more weeks??!!"
i'm sure in 3 weeks, i'll still be just as miserable
I still haven't reached that point. I'm definitely uncomfortable, but I haven't yet reached "GETTHISEFFINGBABYOUTOFME" status quite yet. Sleep is difficult and I'm having a harder time doing everyday things, but I'm not miserable yet.
I never really got to that point with DS1, either. By the end I was definitely ready for it to be over, but it wasn't completely unbearable.
I started to feel really uncomfortable in my 35th week. I think she dropped, which caused me to start swelling. The swelling started 35w3d and was really bad the rest of that week. The swelling has mildly improved, but still gets bad if I sit for long periods of time.
Then a week or so later, I got hemorrhoids, which have not gone away.
Between those things, I'm ready to be done.
Honestly, the last two weeks have been kind of hellacious for me pain wise. I HATE turning over in bed, though if I don't I'm super uncomfortable anyway, and even sitting on the couch with my feet up has been pretty bad as of late. The only thing that seems to be pretty comfortable is sitting on my exercise ball.
But yeah - I hear you. I'm pretty much uncomfortable all the time. That's why I have DH rub my back basically every night.
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Around 34 weeks. The only discomfort I really had to deal with though was trying to get comfortable sleeping and rolling over. I constantly felt like a turtle stuck on its back.
Other than that I was pretty comfortable up to the end. Yeah I had the aches, pains, heart burn, and achey muscles but never to the point where I was done being pregnant.
My belly was growing at a ridiculous speed towards the end and had I not given birth at 37 weeks I probably would be the absolute most miserable excuse for a human being right now.
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