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Pregnant after IF
XP how crazy is this?? Vent!
Do we all remember my irresponsible fertile SIL? Well u won't believe this..
My SIL is 28 weeks pg due in mid November -- I cannot believe how ignorant she is about being pregnant. She had bright red spotting 3 or 4 days ago and didn't want to go to the hospital. Her H ( who is most likely not the babies father ) finally made her go and they didn't know why she was spotting but found out the baby's head is misshaped (due to Topamax she was taking with unprotected sex).. So yesterday she said she felt a gush of water and soaked through her skirt and a huge amount of pressures... And went home! Not to the hospital, home! Then she said she felt like she was leaking all day and my MIL screamed at her to go to the hospital, so she did. Luckily it's nothing -- they think a bacterial infection and she's not good about taking her antibiotics. But really?? How lucky is she! Here baby could have been dying and she didn't even care.. So freaking frustrating! I had to vent!.. I worked so damn hard for a baby and DH deserves one.. It's just amazing what people r allowed to conceive.
Married November 2007
DH became a double above knee amputee with traumatic brain injury (TBI) - July 2009
TTC - August 2009 DX: Severe MFI & TF due to TBI
DH SA 0 count, started clomid therapy - November 2010
DH SA 0 count, increased clomid dosage - January 2011
DH SA 75 million with 60% motility!! - May 2011
IVF with ICSI ONLY OPTION - May 2011
3dt of 2 Grade A 8&7 cell embryos May 19, 2011
+HPT May 30 2011 -- Memorial Day!
Beta #1 = 34 Beta #2 = 101.8 Beta #3 = 603!
Expecting beautiful Eden Grace February 7, 2012!
I don't believe that God ever tells us "no". he has three options. Yes, not right now, or I have something better in mind. We just have to wait & see.
DH became a double above knee amputee with traumatic brain injury (TBI) - July 2009
TTC - August 2009 DX: Severe MFI & TF due to TBI
DH SA 0 count, started clomid therapy - November 2010
DH SA 0 count, increased clomid dosage - January 2011
DH SA 75 million with 60% motility!! - May 2011
IVF with ICSI ONLY OPTION - May 2011
3dt of 2 Grade A 8&7 cell embryos May 19, 2011
+HPT May 30 2011 -- Memorial Day!
Beta #1 = 34 Beta #2 = 101.8 Beta #3 = 603!
Expecting beautiful Eden Grace February 7, 2012!
I don't believe that God ever tells us "no". he has three options. Yes, not right now, or I have something better in mind. We just have to wait & see.
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Re: XP how crazy is this?? Vent!
OMG that would make me absolutely lose my mind to have a SIL like that. You poor thing, like you dont have enough to deal with on top of her stupid a$$.
Is it possible for you to steal her baby ?
Anyway I hope the baby is ok... I wonder why she wont go to the hospital? wackadoo
iui #5 2/7 + 2/8 = BFP!! 11 dpiui
Beta #1 2/18 11dpiui= 46, Beta #2 13dpiui 150, Beta #3 16dpiui 584!!
u/s revealed triplets! Baby B 3rd loss 8w2d. Twins! EDD 10/31/11 * c/s scheduled 10/12/11 My NEW BLOG
This :b I was at the Dr. once (for an IUI) when this lady came in having contractions at 22 weeks. They were going to send her to the hospital to see if they could stop them. She seemed annoyed & was whining that she didn't want to go the hospital and she was "sick of this". I overheard her saying this was baby #5. At the time I was quite hormonal and strongly considered telling her that if she didn't want that baby, I'd gladly take it.
TTC #1 since Jan 09
Jul 2010 - HSG, SA, U/S BW - all clear
Nov 2010- Mar 2011 - 50mg Clomid, HCG Trigger & IUI 1-4 All BFN
Apr/May 2011 break
June 2011 - New RE, New Plan
July 2011 - Gonal F, Ovidrel & IUI #5
July 2011 surprise BFP on a break cycle before injects!!! Please let this be it!
Cautiously expecting our miracle on Feb 25, 2012
DH became a double above knee amputee with traumatic brain injury (TBI) - July 2009
TTC - August 2009 DX: Severe MFI & TF due to TBI
DH SA 0 count, started clomid therapy - November 2010
DH SA 0 count, increased clomid dosage - January 2011
DH SA 75 million with 60% motility!! - May 2011
IVF with ICSI ONLY OPTION - May 2011
3dt of 2 Grade A 8&7 cell embryos May 19, 2011
+HPT May 30 2011 -- Memorial Day!
Beta #1 = 34 Beta #2 = 101.8 Beta #3 = 603!
Expecting beautiful Eden Grace February 7, 2012!
I don't believe that God ever tells us "no". he has three options. Yes, not right now, or I have something better in mind. We just have to wait & see.
I have a relative like this (not to this degree) and it is upsetting, frustrating and just plain not fair!
Sorry you have to deal with her, hope her pregnancy is uneventful and safe for the sake of the baby.
4 Clomid cycles BFN's,3 injectible cycles BFN, 3 failed IUI's
Hystroscopy to remove cysts 11/2010
IVF #1 with ICSI Graydon Dane born Oct. 23, 2011 via c-section at 38 weeks.
Surprise BFP 10/9/12. Blighted ovum at 8wks. D&C 11/1/12.
Surprise BFP#2 TWINS!!! Boy/Girl twins.