TTC After a Loss

PW: Trying not to be snarky!

My cousin, who just announced on FB that she's pregnant and due at the end of April (meaning she's freshly pregnant) just wrote this:

"Great workout this morning but man, can I tell I'm preggo! :)"

I'm trying so hard not to write back, "You are a pasta sauce??" 

ETA: I also should say that this said cousin just had a baby in February too.  


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The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

Re: PW: Trying not to be snarky!

  • Yes

     Our baby boy,Logan, was born still at 19w3d on 7/1/2011
    Our 2nd baby boy, Mason, was born still at 20w3d on 1/31/2012

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  • You should soooo do it!! lol
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  • How about: "That reminds me...I need to go to the store. Tonight is Italian night, and we're having pasta. Yum!!"

    10 bucks says she won't get it. Stick out tongue


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  • imageVikingQueen:
    You should soooo do it!! lol

    LOL, you should do it, Cashews! Smile

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  • imagedamabo80:

    How about: "That reminds me...I need to go to the store. Tonight is Italian night, and we're having pasta. Yum!!"

    10 bucks says she won't get it. Stick out tongue

    Yes!!! Or "Thanks for reminding me to pick up my pasta sauce for tonight's supper!"

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  • imagetheresat858:
    imagedamabo80:

    How about: "That reminds me...I need to go to the store. Tonight is Italian night, and we're having pasta. Yum!!"

    10 bucks says she won't get it. Stick out tongue

    I like this idea :-)

    OR maybe.."I've always liked Ragu better..."

    OMG!!!

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  • imageDCWJes:
    imagedamabo80:

    How about: "That reminds me...I need to go to the store. Tonight is Italian night, and we're having pasta. Yum!!"

    10 bucks says she won't get it. Stick out tongue

    Yes!!! Or "Thanks for reminding me to pick up my pasta sauce for tonight's supper!"

    LMAO! I should do that shouldn't I??  


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • imageCashewsMommy:
    imageDCWJes:
    imagedamabo80:

    How about: "That reminds me...I need to go to the store. Tonight is Italian night, and we're having pasta. Yum!!"

    10 bucks says she won't get it. Stick out tongue

    Yes!!! Or "Thanks for reminding me to pick up my pasta sauce for tonight's supper!"

    LMAO! I should do that shouldn't I??  

    Um yes!! definately lol

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  • I had a friend post on her status while she was in the hospital giving birth to her second about how all the preggos screaming where scaring her. This is a friend who I though understood she had two early losses and did IUI to get pg. So I posted as my status prego is a sauce not as state of the ute. She deleted me as a friend about a minute later. If I had to do it over again I would because she proved she wasn't a true friend.

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  • imageCashewsMommy:
    imageDCWJes:
    imagedamabo80:

    How about: "That reminds me...I need to go to the store. Tonight is Italian night, and we're having pasta. Yum!!"

    10 bucks says she won't get it. Stick out tongue

    Yes!!! Or "Thanks for reminding me to pick up my pasta sauce for tonight's supper!"

    LMAO! I should do that shouldn't I??  

    Definately!!

    I have short term memory loss. Do not take it personally if I do not remember you right away.
    No longer trying to conceive at all.
    BFP #1 12/1/02 DD born 7/25/03 
    BFP #2 7/23/10 EDD 3/30/11 m/c 8/17/10 We will always miss you Angelique Marie! 
     BFP #3 4.13.11 EDD 12.18.11 m/c 5/13/11 d&c 5/18/11 We will always miss you Sprout Ryker! 
     Lucky Lee (furbaby) born 1.29.12 
     Midnight Marie (furbaby) born 7.4.12 passed for unknown reasons 9.19.12 Missing my jumping bean. 
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  • Oh wow! I say you should totally do it! 
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  • OMG you guys are bad! You peer pressured me into it!!! 

    Oh! Thanks for reminding me that I need to run and pick up some pasta sauce for dinner tonight. ;) 


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • imageCashewsMommy:

    OMG you guys are bad! You peer pressured me into it!!! 

    Oh! Thanks for reminding me that I need to run and pick up some pasta sauce for dinner tonight. ;) 

    As if I didn't think I could love you anymore

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  • imageCashewsMommy:

    OMG you guys are bad! You peer pressured me into it!!! 

    Oh! Thanks for reminding me that I need to run and pick up some pasta sauce for dinner tonight. ;) 

    Love it!!!!! 

    PS: Hope you are doing well!

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  • imageVikingQueen:
    imageCashewsMommy:
    imageDCWJes:
    imagedamabo80:

    How about: "That reminds me...I need to go to the store. Tonight is Italian night, and we're having pasta. Yum!!"

    10 bucks says she won't get it. Stick out tongue

    Yes!!! Or "Thanks for reminding me to pick up my pasta sauce for tonight's supper!"

    LMAO! I should do that shouldn't I??  

    Um yes!! definately lol

     I vote yes too!  This would make my day :)  And make you feel better! lol

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  • She just wrote back: ;) hahaha love you steph!  

    Whatever. LOL 


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • imagebutterfly843:
    I had a friend post on her status while she was in the hospital giving birth to her second about how all the preggos screaming where scaring her. This is a friend who I though understood she had two early losses and did IUI to get pg. So I posted as my status prego is a sauce not as state of the ute. She deleted me as a friend about a minute later. If I had to do it over again I would because she proved she wasn't a true friend.

    OMG! Yeah, that is not a true friend at all.  


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • annoying!  I just posted a FB rant similar, due in April also............

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  • imageCashewsMommy:

    She just wrote back: ;) hahaha love you steph!  

    Whatever. LOL 

    lol she didn't get it

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  • imagebutterfly843:
    I had a friend post on her status while she was in the hospital giving birth to her second about how all the preggos screaming where scaring her. This is a friend who I though understood she had two early losses and did IUI to get pg. So I posted as my status prego is a sauce not as state of the ute. She deleted me as a friend about a minute later. If I had to do it over again I would because she proved she wasn't a true friend.

    I love this comeback!

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  • imageVikingQueen:
    imageCashewsMommy:

    She just wrote back: ;) hahaha love you steph!  

    Whatever. LOL 

    lol she didn't get it

    I'm sure she did... just doesn't want the FB crowd to know.

    I should have also added "and a bottle of wine" to that original post! Dammit!  


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • imagedamabo80:

    How about: "That reminds me...I need to go to the store. Tonight is Italian night, and we're having pasta. Yum!!"

    10 bucks says she won't get it. Stick out tongue

    I like it!


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  • id totally want to post that. i HATE when people say they are "preggo"
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  • imageCashewsMommy:

    OMG you guys are bad! You peer pressured me into it!!! 

    Oh! Thanks for reminding me that I need to run and pick up some pasta sauce for dinner tonight. ;) 

      PRICELESSS.....  Can't wait to hear if she responded!!
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  • imageSin_NIN:
    imageCashewsMommy:

    OMG you guys are bad! You peer pressured me into it!!! 

    Oh! Thanks for reminding me that I need to run and pick up some pasta sauce for dinner tonight. ;) 

      PRICELESSS.....  Can't wait to hear if she responded!!
    Nevermind.... nice response lol
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  • imageVikingQueen:
    You should soooo do it!! lol

    Yes 

  • Yes I'm glad you posted it!!
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  • Thanks guys! I'm waiting for someone else to say something.... nobody has yet. I'm sure my mom will see it later tonight and give me a call. LOL


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • What a great reply.  I am learning so much on this board!!

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    You are better then me! I totally would have written something about how I didn't know you could be a pasta sauce!

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