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May 2011 Moms
elisbu, a question
why have another baby with your guy?
https://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/56773363.aspx
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Re: elisbu, a question
Just let it go, seriously.
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It must be hard being so perfect. I hope you fall off your high horse and smack some sense into yourself. Holding onto anger is not healthy.......it;s time to let it go.
Wow, someone has way too much time on their hands. Get over yourself.
AE's suck.
However, I don't think it's fair to assume this is a May mom. I mean, I've seen elisbu frequent several boards and post a lot of information about her personal life. She's on the radar of that entire BGP spinoff board, too. Just sayin'.
And if you put it out on the internet, it's going to find it's way back around to you somehow.
Whoever this is, I think you've gone way too far. Almost all of us have come on here at some point with a vent about our DHs. First you're pregnant, hormonal and exhausted, then you're sleep-deprived and overwhelmed with new responsibilities. She didn't post it on our board because she didn't want to discuss it with us- you should have respected that.
My relationship with my husband isn't perfect right now either. I get overwhelmed with my responsibilities and get resentful sometimes- we still plan to have a second baby in a few years- do you want to pick on me too?
What is BGP?
True, she was getting people worked up on other boards before we all got our BFPs last year anyway.
Regardless if she got people worked up or not, it is nobody's place to judge someone like that. To go to the length of creating a new name just to belittle someone about wanting another child with their DH is a shame. We all vent about our SO/DH from time to time. It's life. I'm sure your life with your DH isn't absolutely perfect every single day. Yet you may, at one point, want to have another LO with him.
It's Big Girl Panties.
I don't think it was very nice for someone to take Elisbus post from TN and copy paste it into May Mamas. If she wanted our advice on the situation she would have asked May Mamas.
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I am so a-okay with this post. I also posted about it on PAL, but I guess AE didn't see that.
I'm not perfect, but I've never claimed to be either. The good thing about admitting to faults is that you usually get help in fixing them, which in this case I did.
So now all the May Mamas know: My name is elisbu and I fight with my husband.
Hello Elisbu. Welcome to the club. Good to know you aren't perfect. I still love you!
I'm pretty sure in the time I've been on TB I have seen hundreds of DH vents....what exactly makes this one so special it needs to be singled out?
Geez Elisbu, you should really feel flattered. There are ...what...4 posts centered around you? Even the people that say they don't like you are seriously spending way too much time thinking about you. How can you stand being so special?
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I just thought I should say that I don't need a AE to say what I think, so this has nothing to do with me.
I really don't think it's a scandal though. Some of you posters have pretty high expectations of an internet board.
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And some people work and aren't with their babies 24/7 during the day. Not that it's an excuse, but not everyone is looking after a baby right this second (
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Also, I just noticed the time this was posted. Yikes. So glad I'm not up at that hour anymore!
I actually wasn't in on the MUD. the only post I made was after Elisbu got called out and I felt it was unfair to her. That was it. You can check my posts. I made one, and even then I was trying to be on the nice side about it. I'm not a mean person.
It's 11am where I am, not super early, or late.
I'm not trying to start drama, I get that people work but I just think that enough is enough. I'd like to get back to the happy-go-lucky boards.
Well, my bad then. From your post in Token's page it sounded like you were in on it.
Nope. Got to the FB thing at night and saw all the drama afterwards. I just thought, like I said that Elisbu was treated unfairly. I was trying to stick up for her, but I guess I came off like a cohort in the whole thing. Just trying to be nice really. I didn't mean to come off b!tchy to token either, I even included a LOL in there I believe.
I promise, I'm a nice girl IRL haha. We've never had any issues me and you LF, I'd like to keep it that way. I actually don't think I've had issues with anyone in particular on the boards and I'd like to keep it that way too.
Agreed! I have just sat back and read (sort of entertaining in a weird,time consuming way. Sort of feel like it is reality show that we are all part of!). But it is going to far to seek out to intentionally hurt someone when they are looking for advice. And post to humiliate them to hundred of other bumpies is wrong.
OOh I didn't know there was a BGP spinoff board.
Yeah, the group that Totty went through with. They are on 6-9 now? I'm not sure.