Pregnant after IF

My birth story (finally!)

My baby boy was born on Saturday, July 30th (our six year wedding anniversary!!!!!) at 8:42pm. He was born 8 days early.

William Michael weighed a whopping 9 pounds, 11 ounces. He was a very long 23 inches! I delivered him vaginally (ack!).?

I went into labor the night before around 10 pm. It happened suddenly. I started having contractions that were instantly 4 to 5 minutes apart, lasting over a minute. I soon started vomiting and my body was cleaning itself out. I waited until about 3 am to call my doctor. I went into the hospital at 4:30 am. I was 4 cm dilated and 80% effaced and the baby was very low. I was admitted. I labored for a while. The contractions were manageable. I didn't want an epidural, but I knew it could be an option. Around 11 am, I was started on Pitocin. OMG the pain from the Pitocin was outrageous. I soon received an epidural! I was dilating slowly. A little before 5:30 pm, I started to push. I pushed for about 3 1/2 hours. It was a very long 3 1/2 hours. Pushing is so exhausting and difficult! I cried and begged my OB for a c-section. Because I have a history of blood clots and some other weird medical issues, my OB really did not want to do a c-section unless the baby or I was in danger. Finally, he was ready to come out. He was pulled out of me because he was so big and the doctor was worried about him losing oxygen, and he broke his collarbone coming out! :( But he will be fine and there is no issue. No one could believe how big and long he was!?

I had an episiotomy, and then I tore the entire rest of the way. It is a fourth degree tear. The pain has been unreal. I never in a million years thought the pain would be so bad. It is now three weeks later, and I am just starting to feel a bit better. I still cannot sit on a chair. I left the house yesterday (3 weeks after giving birth) for the first time (besides his pediatrician appointments). I went back to the OB last Wednesday, and he thinks I separated my pelvic bone while giving birth because the baby was so big. It is something that will just take time to heal. DH has been amazing and does almost everything since I am still in so much pain.?

The baby had to go back to the hospital for jaundice for two days, but he is fine now. He is great! It is a lot of work, but fun and rewarding. I still look at him and cannot believe I am a mom and I have this dream in my arms. It is amazing. He is really cute!?

Thanks so much for all your support, girls! I will be lurking and occasionally posting on this board. I guess I need to move over to the SAIF board. Wow.

Enjoy your pregnancies. I really miss feeling him move and kick inside of me. For me, that was the greatest feeling!

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DS born 7.30.11

Re: My birth story (finally!)

  • Congrats momma and way to go on such a big baby.  I had an epis and a 3rd degree and it was bad enough.  DS only weighed 7-9.  I had a dream (?nightmare) the other night that this baby weighed 9-12, ugh.

    Can't wait to see you over on SAIF! 

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  • Wowwwwie!!! I can't believe your birth story! O-U-C-H!!!!

    Well, I am glad that you are starting to feel better though, enjoy that little bundle of cuteness :) 

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  • congratulations on the birth of your sweet boy!

    i'm so sorry your labor was so difficult and painful. i cannot imagine pushing out a nearly 10 pound baby and having a 4th degree tear. i hope the rest of your recovery goes well and you both heal quickly.

    thanks for sharing your story!

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  • Congrats on the birth of your son!!! Welcome to the world William!!!
    TTC #1 Since 11/08 - Dx: MFI & PCOS
    7 IUIs = All BFNs
    2011: March IVF #1.2 = e/p @ 6w: May IVF #2 = BFN: July sFET #1 = BFN

    2012: Jan We're Certified FC/A Parents
    May IVF #3 = c/p
    June-Nov Foster Mommy to M (Toddler)
    July FET #2 = BFN
    Aug FET #3 = BFN
    Sept-Nov Foster Mommy to Baby Bella (Newborn)
    Nov HSG/Sono = Clear!
    Dec FET #4 = BFN

    2013: Feb FET #5 = m/c @ 6.5w
    May-July Foster Mom to H (8 yr old girl)
    June/July/Aug IVF #4 = Freeze All
    July = Unofficially Adopting T (10 yr old boy)
    Sept FET #6 = TBD
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  • Congrats on your beautiful big boy!  Great name!  I'm sorry you teared and were in so much pain, but I'm sure he is all worth it.
    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

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  • Congratulations mama! Glad you and William are doing well!  Enjoy every minute with him!  Post pictures when you can!

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  • Congrats! It's an amazing feeling being a mommy. I'm so happy for you!
    Stacy
    PCOS, RPL, & Anti Cardiolipin Antibody
  • Congratulations and welcome, William!  Hope you continue to feel better.  You did an amazing job delivering such a big guy!!
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  • Ohhhh, your story made me cringe a little.  Glad to hear that you're starting to feel better.  Congratulations on your (not so) little boy!
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    12/10 - Unmedicated cycle due to RE not doing treatments in December = BFN
    1/11 - 100mg Clomid + trigger + IUI + Estradiol + Progesterone = BFN
    2/11 - Same sh!t, different month = IUI cancelled due to no response = BFN
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  • Wow! That's a hard birth. Congratulations on your son and kudos to you, you're a strong momma.

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  • Congratulations, Grazy! I'm so happy that you have your little boy in your arms! I'm sorry the delivery was so rough :( that sounds truly terrible. I hope you're feeling better very soon! See ya on SAIF!
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  • Congrats!!  Wow he is a big boy!!

    I am glad you are starting to feel better.

    Michelle
    Blythe Elizabeth is here March 27,2012
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  • Wow, what a birth story! Congratulations and I hope you start feeling better soon. I can't believe how big he was!! 
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  • Oh you poor thing!  I'm so sorry that you've been in so much pain, but congrats on being a mommy :)

    Diagnosed PCOS 2/07, TTC #1 since 8/09
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    12/10 - Clomid Round 2 = BFN
    1/11 - Voluntary Break = BFN (duh)
    2/11 - Clomid Round 3 = BFN
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  • Congratulations!!!!!!    I love his name!  

    and you are a total warrior after that labor and delivery!   Holy cow, woman.   Hoping the worst of recovery is behind you!      Enjoy all the snuggles!

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  • Congratulations!! And welcome to the world, William!! I hope his little collarbone heals quickly and you're back to feeling 100% very soon!!

    Congrats!!


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  • Congrats on your "big" boy!! Sorry you have to deal with a 4th degree tear (I work in L&D in cord blood but am in the deliveries and I hate hearing when there are 3rd and 4th degree tears!), hope you heal up quickly !!
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  • Congratulations!  I love his name... William was our top boy name.  I hope you start feeling better soon... I'm so scared of the whole episiotomy/tearing business.  It just makes me cringe to read about it.  Thanks for sharing your story though!  lol
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  • Wow, he was a big boy!

    You are a strong lady! I hope you heal quickly.

    Welcome to the world little William!

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