So my husband and I are planning to tell my parents tomorrow that we are 13 wks pregnant with twins. I am so scared!! After 4 rounds of IVF I feel like everytime we say it out loud we are jinxing ourselves. I am scared that they won't be super excited or that after we tell them that something will happen to one of the babies. Its like I want to keep it a secret but I know that keeping to ourselves is just making me even more nervous that something is going to happen or we are going to be the worst parents ever, ( I don't know how the two are related but in my mind they are??) I just hope that it goes well. We wanted to have my parents up to our house, but my mom is saying how much stuff she has to do and can't come up so we are going down there. Not how we initally pictured it, but deep down I am dying to tell them just really hopeful that they will be excited.
Re: Coming out
Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. -Philo
Baby N conceived after 1 miscarriage and more than 2 years of TTC. Diagnosis was low sperm count. We found success after 3 months of anastrozole to increase DH's testosterone and one IUI.
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I'm stupid. You're smart. I was wrong. You were right. You're the best. I'm the worst. You're very good-looking. I'm not attractive. - Happy Gilmore
1st cycle diagnosed with slight hypothyroidism. Clomid, dexamethasone, HCG trigger shot. BFN
2nd cycle, Clomid, dexamethasone, HCG trigger shot. BFN
3rd cycle, Clomid, dexamethasone, ovulated with out tigger. BFN
4th cycle, Clomid, dexamethasone, HCG trigger shot. BFP!!!
EDD 12/31/2011 ----- actual birthday 01/05/2012
Surprise BFP! - EDD 10/14/2013