I'm having a hard time staying asleep at night because I get so uncomfortable. I haven't bought a pregnancy pillow yet, but I have been sleeping primarily on my left side with a pillow between my legs. I'll occassionally turn to my right side to give my left side a break, but I always end up with the same problem - my hips HURT. It feels like we're doing PIO shots again! Ugh. I've been trying to stay off of my back too.
Does anyone have any suggestions about ways to sleep more comfortably, keeping my hips from being sore, or anything else that would help?
Which pregnancy pillow do you recommend? When did you start using it?
Also, is it alright to sleep on my back if I'm propped up a little?
Thanks!
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Re: Sleeping positions?
I didn't end up getting a pregnancy pillow, I just couldn't fathom spending so much on a pillow just because it's a funny shape or has the word pregnancy/maternity in front of it. I feel like we're wedding shopping all over again with these insane mark-ups over one word!
I rotate all night long from left to back to right to back. I still sleep on my back. My OB says you'll know when you can't do that anymore, your body will let you know. I don't stay in one position long enough to notice any issues. I just use an extra pillow in between my legs/knees to help out with some of the pain, and sometimes use it as a wedge behind my back when I'm on my side.
That's the best I've come up with. I think our bed just isn't firm enough to offer me enough support, but there's no way we're getting a new one when we just bought this one last year! lol
I also didnt want to spend an insane amount of money on a pregnancy pillow. I just used a king size pillow to hug so it could support my belly. But that was when I was pretty far along. I also still slept on my back part of the night up until I delievered. I found it was much more comfortable to be on my left side than my right. I think that was because my baby was only on the right side.
I think you just need to experiment with different ways to sleep. I know some women slept better in a recliner or on the couch. The couch may be more comfortable because its firmer so it provides better support. You never know until you try it out. Good luck and I hope you get some good sleep soon!
I got a boppy pillow and love it. But I still feel uncomfortable just being on my sides (I was a back sleeper before). I wake up on my back occasionally, but doc said it's ok, and that I will know when I need to turn.
I will say though that even if the pillow doesn't take all the discomfort away, it still makes a difference. I was without it a couple of days when traveling and that was tough.
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i feel your pain sweetie!
i think i bought my PG pillow around 20-22 weeks. i bought the preggle from babies r us - it's basically their generic version of the snoogle, it's made by the same company as the snoogle, and it's less $$$. i *love* my preggle - if we stay over at the IL's, i always bring it with, and it's going to the hospital. i sleep with it between my legs.
you are basically doing everything you can do. the bigger you get (at least for me), you'll find that laying on your back isn't really comfortable b/c the baby will put pressure on your lungs. but i find myself laying on my back for short stints during the night just to give my hips some relief. but for the most part, i'm on my right or left side
if the aches are particularly bad one night, i'll pop an extra strength tylenol and that takes the edge off.
feel better!
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