Hi Everyone,
DH and I are finalizing our list of favorite baby names before our anatomy scan in 2 weeks. I LOVE the name Quinn, but DH will only consider it as a boy's name, not for a girl.
Honestly I'm OK with it, but it seems like only little girls are being named Quinn these days. I just wonder if it would set up a little boy for grief later on if he was a boy Quinn in a classroom of one or more girl Quinn's...KWIM?
Thanks for any thoughts and insights!
Re: Quinn as a boy's name?
I like it better for a boy than a girl. but it could be because I've recently read the sookie stackhouse/southern vampire mysteries series of books and there is a charactor in the story named Quinn and he is quite manly.
I used to watch Glee and never quite liked it for a girl on that show.
I agree with this
I really don't think it will.
My true first name is a boy's name...and the only "grief" I had was explaining that yes, my parents gave me a boy's name with the boy's spelling and not the girl's spelling. Today, while my name still isn't super popularly found in girls, for girls the spelling is almost universally the masculine one.
And I went to school with tons of boys named Kelly and Lee. They are super gender-neutral now, but back then they were really fem-associated and none of them were ever picked on in class or on the playground. I think you are going to run into problems really and truly only if you go off the deep end and name him Sue or Mary. Though, my grandfather had a name that is now (and was then) purely fem sounding and he was never given grief over it either. My son has a name that when you use the shortened version and add an -i/-y on the end (the way mommies do to their boys) it transforms into a girls name. I truly didn't consider it, and always called him -y ... his friends only teased him about it when he became a teen and only then more of a "Mommy's calling you" rather than "she's calling you by a girl's name"... he never asked me to stop calling him by the name, and occasionally one of his friends will use name endearingly as well.
And here's a thread on Male/Quinn from last week that might interest you:
https://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/56783488.aspx
The only Quinn I've ever known was a boy.
Really, I think it will be fine even if there are a lot of girls with that name. I knew a boy named Kelly growing up, and I was just like "oh, a boy named Kelly," and that was that.