According to Kellymom, DD should night wean when she is ready. Well, she is almost a year old. I do not mind feeding her at night. That said, am I setting myself up for a toddler- then preschooler- for having milk at night? Any advice?
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Re: Night Weaning
I let DH take over night time when I knew she didn't need to eat. I still nurse 1 time at night but it's early so I don't mind. I made him go in and rock her back to sleep. That helped a lot because then she didn't expect to nurse.
I know Jay Gordon has an AP friendly night weaning method. Some moms use a sippy or bottle of water to pacify LO at night and then eventually they stop waking up.
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If you're okay with her nursing at night, then I wouldn't worry about it. You aren't setting yourself up for having a crappy sleeper in the future. DS1 was the world's worst sleeping baby pretty much ever, but he sleeps through the night 99% of the time now (he's 3.5). I night weaned him around 18-20 months, but it didn't make him stop waking during the night. He co-slept with us until a few months after night weaning, when he got his own bed, and *that* is what got him to start sleeping longer stretches. (We probably should have gotten him his own space earlier, but it was such a catch-22 at the time...when you're in it, you can never see the end!).
We did the Jay Gordon method, pretty much, but he was old enough to understand language - and Gordon doesn't recommend doing it until at least 12 months. I agree that it's harder when the one with the boobs is doing it, but I think we'll probably try the same method with DS2. I think No-Cry Sleep Solution has ideas for night weaning, also!
https://drjaygordon.com/attachment/sleeppattern.html
DS2 - Oct 2010 (my VBAC baby!)