Hey yall, I am new here and joining for some support . My name is Lily, I am 23 years old and married to the best damn hubby you could ever ask for .
NE-Wayz, I just found out I am pregnant with baby #5 !!! I have 3 lil girls who are 5,3,and 18 months old . I have a son who is 4 months old ! This was a big suprise but I know we can handle it !
Not sure when my duedate is cuz my doctor app isnt till next week but from my missed period, I think I am due April 3rd . Yikes!!
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Wow..good luck
BFP#1 05/19/10 M/C 6/4/10 d/x threatened m/c 6/6/10 m/c confirmed
BFP#2 10/26/10 M/C 11/01/10
BFP#3 11/28/10 C/P 11/29/10
BFP#4 02/23/11 M/C 3/1/11
BFP#5 08/13/11 EDD 04/27/12 Beta @11DPO 8.79 Beta @13DPO 36 Beta @17DPO 179 Beta @20DPO 679!! 6w3d hb 116 bpm! 8w3d hb 164 bpm! 10w4d hb 177-187 NT scan 12w2d hb 173-everything looks great! 14w4d-everything still looks great! A/S scheduled for 12/12!
Our rainbow baby is here!! Emmalynn Anne born 4/27/12 via unplanned c-section
BFP#6 Surprise! Here comes baby #2! Harper Elizabeth born 12/17/13 via c-section
wow
2004- DX with PCOS
6/2011- Gonal-F + Ganirelix + Oviderl and Crinone= BFP
7/7/2011 Beta #1 119 Beta #2 563 Beta#3 4178
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Is this for real? How were you surprised? You do know the process works after four kids, yes? This has to be a mild form of MUD.
Whoa, 5 kids at 23. That's.. um... wow.
Nah, my mom had seven kids so...
Good luck.
I hope they take good care of you when you're old. I hope they don't stick you in a nursing home and never visit you. Surely one out five will be the good one... right?
I predict she comes back next week to announce it's twins.
"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person." ~Mignon McLaughlin
"We spend the first 12 months of our children's lives teaching them to walk and talk and the next 12 months teaching them to sit down and shut up." ~Phyllis Diller
A person who spells "anyways" that way and ends it with a z seems way too immature to be taking care of 5 kids properly. Are you trying to catch up with "19 kids and counting"? I agree with PP that this shouldn't have been much of a surprise to you....as you just had a baby 4 months ago and obviously weren't taking any precautions to having another one. I'm praying this is MUD; that is all.
BFP#2 ~ 8/2/11, EDD 4/11/12, D&C 9/12/11 at 9w5d
BFP#3 ~ 4/15/12, EDD 12/21/12 ~ DD born 12/22/12
To all those people that are criticizing her you have no idea what the circumstances are and should just mind your own business if you do not have anything positive to say. This girl has come on here for support which are what these forums are for, they are not to bash people for their actions. You don't know the circumstances of the pregnancy who knows maybe she was practicing safe sex and the condom broke or it is possible that she was on birth control and it didn't work as neither is 100% effective. So please take your mothers advice and if you don't have anything nice or positive to say to her than just Shut It.
Well Said!
BFP #1 - 04/11/2011 - EDD: 12/22/2011 -Natural MC 5/18/2011 @ 8w6d BFP
BFP #2 - 08/12/2011 - EDD: 04/21/2012 1st U/S 9/12/2011 - Healthy baby seen -- Heartbeat at 166!
BFP #3 - 08/02/2014 - EDD: 04/09/2015 ---Prayers for a take home baby
Agreed! I remember when I was traveling in another part of the country and I met a girl about my age at the time shocked that I didn't have any children (I was 23). Different people do different things. Not everyone waits until their late 20's to have kids.
To the OP, 5 kiddos sounds like a handful. Good luck and best wishes for a happy and healthy pregnancy.
ITA! Congrats!!!! im one of 5 and its awesome!!! we arent that close in age but close enough!!!!!!! Happy & Healhy 9 Months!!!!!
i dont recall her saying all 5 were surprises....
Oh I'm sorry I didn't realize that these forums were supposed to be used to bash people and make rude comments that your otherwise would not be able to say to her face. Grow Up and maybe you should be looking at yourself having kids I would hate to see how they are being raised with a mother that doesn't have respect and kindness towards others. And as another said before she didn't say she was surprised about the first 4 they could have been planned and like I said before you don't know her circumstances.
Yes you are obviously new here. I can't count the number of times I've read this exact same response. No the forums aren't necessarily for support. They're a place where people can ask questions and get answers, post their opinions, and yes sometimes offer support, but that is not automatically guaranteed just because you post here. There is a lot of MUD (made-up drama) that gets posted here and that is why people are suspicious.
Finally, give me a break with the bolded part. Just because someone is going to be or is a mother automatically makes her (or should make her) a saint? Are you a saint? Do you always, under every circumstance, treat everyone you ever come across with nothing but sweetness? Please. All mothers have different attitudes and ways of approaching the world, good days and bad days. Just because someone was rude to someone (who is quite possibly just posting MUD) on an internet message board does not make them an unfit mother. Get a grip.
ETA: Also sorry this comes off as super bitchy.. I just am so sick of seeing that statement flung around here at anyone who isn't all puppies and rainbows. It isn't necessarily aimed just at you.