Secondary IF

How long have you been trying?

Our 1 year 'anniversary' of trying for #2 is coming up and I'm sick to my stomach just thinking about it Sad Trying to decide how long is too long to keep this up ...
7/09 miracle DD born
3/11 DX: lean PCOS/anovulatory
9/11 ovarian drilling to remove cysts + 5mg Femara = BFN
10/11 5 mg Femara again = BFP, ectopic pregnancy at 5w4d
11/11 diagnosed with breast cancer
12/11 bilateral mastectomy with reconstruction
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Dori
"Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming"

Re: How long have you been trying?

  • Three years in March.
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  • we have been trying for just over a year and a half (since January 2010).  I know, sometimes I feel like my life is in such limbo, and I need a deadline by which Im finished trying so I can move on.  But its a hard "decision" to say when you stop trying.  
    DD born 2007, lots of ttc #2 without success, now one & done.
  • It was 3 years in March :(
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  • This month was officially the end of year 2. 
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  • 11 months :(
    Jen Mom to Benjamin, born 9/28/06 TTC # 2 since 7/2010 Unexplained IF 1st round of clomid April 2011 BFN 2nd round of clomid May 2011 BFN 1st round of femara June 2011 BFN 2nd round of femara with ovidrel and IUI #1 July 2011 BFN 3rd round of femara with ovidrel and IUI #2 August 2011 BFN 4th round (ahhhhh!!!!) of femara with ovidrel and IUI #3 converted to TI September 2011 ???
  • About 18 months....and I don't see us being successful anytime soon after what happened with the last IVF cycle. :-(
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    TTC #2, Operative hysteroscopy March 2011; IVF #1 long lupron protocol April 2011-cancelled due to poor response; IVF #2 flare protocol May 2011=hospitalization due to abdominal hemorrhage during ER and no fert due to MFI issues. Moving onto international adoption from Moldova January 2013!
  • 16 months.  And just starting any sort of dx / treatment per OB.
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  • 16 months. We are trying for another year and then moving on.
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  • DS was a wedding night special.  It took 4 years and 1 month of actively trying to get pregnant with DD after DS.

    We have never done anything in particular to stop from conceiving after DS was born except for about 3 months of condoms.  We have been actively trying for #3 since Christmas.  After another miscarriage, I said "screw this" and finally went to see the RE.  Because my kids are very high maintenance and because trying to get pregnant is so emotionally exhausting, we waited until DD was a little more than two before going after the next.  But at this point, my biological clock is ticking.  I don't have another 9 years of fertility--such as it is--left.

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    TTC since 6/02 (age 22) K/U instantly despite no AF for 5 months--preemie baby boy 1/03
    M/C 11/04 - M/C 05 - M/C 06 - BFP 2/08--fullterm baby girl 10/08 - M/C 4/11 - went to RE at age 31
    DX: crappy quality & infrequent ovulation, mild MFI
    Stimmed cycle #1 C/P 7/11 - Stimmed cycle #2 C/P 8/11 - Stimmed cycle #4 C/P 10/11
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    Always thought I'd be a "mom of many"--now just hoping to be a "mom of one or two more!"
  • 2 years

    footnote: we wanted to start 3 years ago but my husband had a huge surgery (colon removed) and we had to wait a year to let the nasty-ass anti-tumor meds leave his system. it's been a long time of waiting, waiting, w-a-i-t-i-n-g....

    this xmas we are going to take down the crib, get rid of the baby clothes, and move on. that will be 2.5 years of active trying. whatever happens after that is a-ok with us. worse case scenario -- we buy a new crib.

    ttc #2 since 6/09 ** au naturel (many months) = bfn ** acupuncture + herbs (many months) = bfn ** acupuncture + herbs + IUI (2 rounds) = bfn ** gonal f + ovidrel + IUI (7 rounds) = bfn ** IVF w/ICSI+PGD - all embryos arrested 4/28/12 GAME OVER ** image >
  • 12 cycles and I have had multiple chemical pregnancies.
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  • DD was born in 1/2010.  We have never tried to prevent it since then.  But we have been seriously trying to have another since last September.  So, almost one year for us.  Sad.

     

  • about 14 months now.
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    June 2010-April 2012: Lots of trying, chlomid, gonal-f, with triggers, without, IUI's and tons of BFNs
    May2012: Letrozole + IUI = BFP!!!! Due 2/10/13
  • Eight months total...we started trying in November of 2010, but took off some time from trying after my miscarriage. 
  • I'm on my 14th cycle (and sitting it out), which may seem like a drop in the bucket compared with some here, but I am also pretty sure I'm the oldest on this board at 41, and my hard deadline looms threateningly overhead.
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  • Two years last month.  Blah.
  • We are moving on to Cycle #14 this weekend.  I have had 2 losses during that time.
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    It will be 3 years in early December.
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    "Just keep swimming, just keep swimming..."

    Miracle DD born 12.2005
    TTC #2 since Dec 2008 w/ PCOS
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  • This is our 10th cycle. I thought that I would have a big ol belly by DD 2nd birthday.That is in December. I will be thrilled if I'm at least in my 1st trimester by then.
    Conceived DD after 15 cycles--- TTC #2 since 11/10---Me- Poor egg quality and supply---DH- Poor count and motility---2 rounds 75IU Follistim/IUI-BFN---5/12 150IU Follistim/IUI-Over-produced! Converted to IVF! 0 fertilized:( Rescue ICSI performed. 2 embryos transfered-BFN

    ---------Game Over---------

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  • Since DS turned 2 in Oct 2010.  I feel like this is nothing compared to some of you.  But, I'm old and right away I knew I was having problems with my luteal phase, so I looked for assistance after only 4 cycles.
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