Mom with a previous M/C..

Pacheco825 · August 2011

Do any of you check the birth month board that you should have been on? I try not to check it to often but occasionally I will look. Like oh that's what my belly would look like now. My due date would have been in 9 days. So happy I am pregnant with this LO, makes it so much easier to pass my old due date!

Anyone else?

shortstuff15 · August 2011

I do. I also have a cousin who is due 3 days after when I would have been so I get a real visual all the time! But I wouldn't have been due until October.

eilatan&nhoj88 · August 2011

I don't check the boards but I lost my first baby on March 17, 2008 at 10 weeks and my second on October 2, 2008 at 7 weeks 3 days.

ronnie day · August 2011

I don't only because there was about three people in my life that were pregnant at the same time as I was, and I had to see them grow and then have their babies. I just kinda stay away from the boards to try and not make it worse

rachoochoo2 · August 2011

I just passed what would have been my due date a couple weeks ago. I don't check the due date room here since that was before I joined but I checked it a lot on my other forum that I was part of. It made me sad but at the same time if I had not lost that pregnancy then I would not have this one.

mom2jadjaxmay · August 2011

I have checked a couple of times, but do not anymore. I would have been due Sept 3rd. I too am so thankful, happy & excited to be pregnant with this LO! Best wishes to all

pharmacygirl · August 2011

No because birth boards didn't exist then nor was I on the bump at that time either. But I also lost Ds2's twin so I do envy twin moms when I see twins. I always think about what it'd be like to have two the same age. But then again I probably wouldn't be having this baby if I did get my twins.

Waiting4Fred · August 2011

I stalk the June 2011 board ALL.THE.TIME. It doesn't sting quite as badly as it once did, but I still don't know why I do it.

baloneydisc · August 2011

My first EDD was in April, but I didn't stalk the board much after my m/c. I was really nervous to join you all just in case.

mrs_kelly1014 · August 2011

Yep. I check that month board pretty often. I also have a friend who is due 4 days after my EDD was with the baby we lost, and it's crazy to think that I 'should' be that far along if I hadn't lost that one.
I am thrilled to be pregnant with this one though, so it's a weird feeling since I know this kiddo wouldn't exist if we hadn't lost the last one.

selenawrites · August 2011

Wow, you just reminded me that I would have been due right about now. What's weird is that my due date now is just 2 days after I had a miscarriage last year. I don't dwell on it but I don't think it's something you ever get over. We definitely appreciate the joys of this pregnancy, as much as I might whine sometimes.

Kflie83 · August 2011

My birth month would have been May 2009, so it's not up anymore. I'm VERY happy that I was pregnant with DS when I was supposed to be due with that baby. It helped a lot!

MrsMeMo · August 2011

I was due October 15th and check the BMB constantly. Because I got pregnant again soon after and Sawyer seems to be doing well as far as we know, I don't feel sad checking out my BMB. I'm happy that the ladies over there are doing well and are just a month or two from delivery.

SoonToBeMsP · August 2011

I had a m/c pretty early on in my first pregnancy (around 7w) and I don't ever look on the May 2011 board. I think it would be too hard for me, even though the m/c itself wasn't unbearable to handle. But I am so excited to pregnant now since I have good things to look forward to!

MrsLeanna · August 2011

ronnie day:
I don't only because there was about three people in my life that were pregnant at the same time as I was, and I had to see them grow and then have their babies. I just kinda stay away from the boards to try and not make it worse

This. I waited about a year to TTC again after my m/c so my friends who were due around my EDD are planning first birthday parties now for their LOs.

Collieflower · August 2011

I have before but don't anymore. I would have been due 10-5. I expect that it will still be a hard day, even though I'm thrilled about this baby.

lauren.cus · August 2011

Waiting4Fred:
I stalk the June 2011 board ALL.THE.TIME. It doesn't sting quite as badly as it once did, but I still don't know why I do it.

Ditto! I stalk July 11 like non other. It still holds a special place in my heart

LuckyTraveler · August 2011

I miscarried really early the first time and didn't even know about these boards, so no. I did however have a friend due the same week as I was and she just had her baby a few weeks ago. It was sad that I miscarried, but I'm happy that I'm pregnant now.

One thing though, this week I started having somewhat irrational fears that at my big A/S appointment I would find out that my baby has died. I've seen the heart beat, I've heard the heart beat, but now it's been six weeks and I'm not feeling movement yet, so I think I'm getting nervous. =( Luckily, my A/S is tomorrow. I'll feel much better when I can see GOOF swimming around in there.

DEBBIE33CASEY · August 2011

They didn't have the birth month boards when I had my m/c but I often think about how this LO and that LO were going to be 3 years apart (EDDs within a few days of each other) and how we never got that baby. Things like that...

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