That sucks, I am so sorry....my beta is Wednesday, but I had a BFN on the free internet test yesterday so I know I am out as well. We are taking a break until June and then will do one more IVF. We started researching adoption agencies as well...I think we are stoping when insurance runs out after the next IVF and moving on to adoption and our lives, but I can't say for sure.....all of this just totally stucks.....
After a loss at 13wks and years dealing with IF and failed treatments (3 failed IUI and 1 failed IVF), we have been blessed with DS (surprise BFP) and now his little sister (2nd round of clomid and TI) on her way.
I was really hoping that your hpts were wrong! I am so sorry hun- it's been so helpful having you as a cycle buddy. I haven't got the call yet.....but if it goes the way I think it will- maybe we'll be cycle buddies again for IVF#2.
Although, we don't have any frozen embies and you'll probably do a FET. Do you know when?
"Yet you do not have because you do not ask. Therefore, I say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you recieve them, and you will have them." -James 4:2 and Mark 11:24.
We have an appointment with RE on Friday to discuss next steps. Everything went wrong this cycle so I'm not confident about those frozen embies being viable. If two perfect embies (10 cell and 8 cell) didn't take why chance a FET with embies that weren't as good? We'll be OOP so I'm not sure I want to spend the money on a FET rather than a fresh IVF cycle. Not sure. We'll see what RE says on Friday.
Re: It's official - IVF #1 BFN
I'm so sorry
((hugs))
so sorry!! I pray you have the strength and courage to live through this!!
After a loss at 13wks and years dealing with IF and failed treatments (3 failed IUI and 1 failed IVF), we have been blessed with DS (surprise BFP) and now his little sister (2nd round of clomid and TI) on her way.
Oh no!!!!!!!!!!!
I was really hoping that your hpts were wrong! I am so sorry hun- it's been so helpful having you as a cycle buddy. I haven't got the call yet.....but if it goes the way I think it will- maybe we'll be cycle buddies again for IVF#2.
Although, we don't have any frozen embies and you'll probably do a FET. Do you know when?
Flower - I still hope this is it for you!
We have an appointment with RE on Friday to discuss next steps. Everything went wrong this cycle so I'm not confident about those frozen embies being viable. If two perfect embies (10 cell and 8 cell) didn't take why chance a FET with embies that weren't as good? We'll be OOP so I'm not sure I want to spend the money on a FET rather than a fresh IVF cycle. Not sure. We'll see what RE says on Friday.
Good luck to you today!
I'm sorry. I too had a BFN on my first IVF cycle, it's not easy.
Take care of yourself.