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m/c last night

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Yesterday I wrote a post about being "just worried" because I had a brownish discharge on the 1st Tri boards. Everyone was very kind, supportive and positive and I am thankful for that.

 Turns out I should have been worried. The symptoms progressed to all those that you dread and I ended up in the hospital from 11p.m. - 4 a.m. and I miscarried at 8 weeks.

 I am surprisingly ok. I know that what happened, happened for a reason and that it wasn't my fault. It was hard hearing the sadness in my mom's voice this morning when I called her. But I am glad I have people to talk to and who I know will be so supportive. DH has been wonderful, it just makes me love and appreciate him and what we have so much more.

 I just wanted to share with people who would understand. I have already told my mom and best friend hearing the sadness in their voices was hard.

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  • wife1014wife1014 member
    I am so very sorry. 
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  • ENevENev member

    I'm very sorry for your loss. :(

    You sound like me after ... I knew it was for a reason, and I was so very grateful to have such a supportive DH and family and friends. It's very hard to share the news, though, because it sucks to make people sad. 

    It did hit me a few times in the days following, and that pain will always be there in a way, but it gets easier, and all you can do it look forward and hope for things to go right the next time.

    I wish you all the best. 

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  • igh0318igh0318
    I'm so sorry for your loss.  Hold tight to DH.  We're here if you need to talk. 
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  • aandgaandg member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. This is a very supportive board to be on.
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  • CincyRaysb2bCincyRaysb2b
    You poor thing. It sounds like it all happened really fast! I agree with the pp you might think you are ok now, but in a few hours, days, weeks you might become upset. If you do, we are here! You are in a good mind set, it happened for a reason and it will make you stronger and more appreciative in the future.
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  • gallerygirlgallerygirl member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Take every moment as it comes because there will be good and bad ones. Take care.
    bfp #1 - 8/17/2008, natural m/c 8/25/2008, EDD 4/21/2009 bfp #2 - 10/6/2008, hb stopped at 7 w 3 d, d&e on 11/7/2008, EDD 6/19/2009 bfp #3- 3/14/2009.... stick, baby, stick!!!! (14 dpo - hcg 188, 16 dpo - hcg 421, 24 dpo - hcg 14,760!, 4/2 healthy HB of 130 bpm, 4/16 HB of 178 bpm!) bfp #4- 2/2/2011, EDD 10/17/2011 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • Our day will comeOur day will come

    I'm so sorry for your loss.

    DH and I were talking this weekend about our families and how hard it was to tell about the MC news we were told on Friday.  It is just spreading the grief and it is like a cancer - so sad.

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  • smyrnagirlsmyrnagirl member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself.
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  • DWBrideMar2008DWBrideMar2008
    I'm very sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself.
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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    I'm so sorry for your loss.  If you have questions or just need to talk about it, we're here.
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  • GenesisStarGenesisStar
    I am so sorry for your loss we are all here if u need someone to talk to
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  • ashleighloughashleighlough
    So sorry to hear. I too found it difficult to hear the disappointment in my immediate family's voices. My husband was with me at the appointment and all I kept saying was how will I tell my parents. I even called my BF before I told my family. I only made two calls, my BF and my mom. I had them and my husband call/tell everyone else. I also sent emails to a few people I worked with that knew. It just made it a little easier.
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  • shannonk03shannonk03
    I am so very sorry for your loss.
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  • bocock's having a babybocock's having a baby
    I'm so sorry for your loss. We are here for you.
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  • labbie1821labbie1821

    I like you was initially OK with the whole situation; the DH and I had talked extensively about the situation and were at peace with the idea that "everything happens for a reason."  However, I have to warn you that even though I believe in my heart it happened for a reason I recently hit a brick wall-emotionally.  Yesterday was 10 days post m/c and I woke up with a heavy heart and lots of crying I couldn't explain.  My DH and family are wonderful, I am very thankful, but for some reason the past 24 hours have been very rough.  Good luck, keep communicating with the DH-it will help you in the end!

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