teen mom to be

Graciepregnant · August 2011

Hello

My name is Gracie, 2 days ago i found out i was pregnant. i think i am due April 4th so about 5 weeks pregnant. I am 17 years old, I have told my boyfriend and my mom who are both taking it badly, i feel so alone and sad. I just can't believe this is happening to me, i was on Birth control and everything. I just can't see my self as a mom yet but know it is going to happen anyway

BabyC1 · August 2011

I am so sorry that you are feeling so alone and sad! I'm sure they will come around, but in the meantime, I'm glad you found a board like this to be able to share your news. Bless your heart! Hang in there, sweetie! Everything will be ok! Try not to stress and take care of yourself and your little one! We are here for you!

Welcome to the board! xoxo

Marinewife81 · August 2011

It's probably just a huge adjustment for them to make. Give them a little time and I'm sure they'll come around. Smile

In the meantime, there are plenty of ladies here to talk to if you have questions or just need someone to vent to!!

And don't worry, everything will work out in the end.

justjess17 · August 2011

Hi Gracie, I'm sorry you are in a tough situation and your are feeling so alone. I hope your loved ones just need more time to get used to this idea and they will come around. There are lots of lovely ladies on this board to talk to, vent with and ask questions. Take care of yourself

Ashl07 · August 2011

Congrats even if it doesn't feel like a happy moment! This is a great board and I know we are all here to help and support. Some advice, if you haven't started prenatal vitamins, start now. They can be bought at almost any store over the counter. You and the baby need the nutrients. stress is not good for you so even though this isn't a place you thought you would be, try to relax as much as possible and take care of yourself. Eat well, get plenty of rest, drink water, and stay away from anything that could harm you or the baby. If you haven't call your doctor and set up an appointment. Don't worry that not everyone is excited and happy about the pregnancy yet. It was a shock I'm sure, and it takes awhile to adjust to this news. Congrats and welcome! I hope you have a happy and healthy pregnancy!

Graciepregnant · August 2011

I bought some folic acid, is that enough? I have made an appointment for monday and wanted my mom to come with me but she said no!

Ashl07 · August 2011

You need a prenatal vitamin, but folic acid is a good start. If you have an appointment on monday ask your doctor what prenatal you can take. Your doctor may be able to call in a prescription at a local pharmacy. Some prescription prenatals only cost cost a few dollars a month. Do you have an aunt, grandma, or good friend who could go with you? I'm sorry your mom doesn't want to go. She may change her mind once the shock wears off.

I know you are probably running through a thousand emotions. Just take it a day at a time.

Graciepregnant · August 2011

Thank you.

I am going to see if one of my friends can come, thnaks for the support

blackbird01 · August 2011

I'm sorry your mom doesn't want to go to your doctor's appointment with you, but good for you for taking care of yourself. A lot of teen moms go without prenatal care. I know this is a difficult situation and not one you wanted to be in, so I hope you are able to find other people in your life to offer support.

sbost0118 · August 2011

Hang in there! Congratulations on your new little one. You're going to have to become your own best advocate now. Now is the time to put you and your baby's needs first - you'll never be able to make everyone happy. It gets better. I'm 31 and my oldest is now 14. Welcome to the board!

aec22 · August 2011

Congratulations! I am sure you are very overwhelmed, but like others said try not to stress too much. You are taking the right steps and it seems like you are being responsible about things. At your appointment maybe you can also ask about any social services that may be available to you. I know in Pennsylvania you would qualify for WIC, day care assistance, and food stamps- at least- just based on your age and situation even though you still live with your mother (I'm assuming). My opinion is that those services are there for those that need it, sure some people abuse it and I don't agree with that, but you seem like someone who could benefit from them. Maybe it would help you get on your feet and everything. I would also look into second hand stores for things like clothes, a crib, stroller, etc... Also, is there a support group in your area? It may help to talk to other young women who have been through the same thing. I sincerely wish you the best of luck! And, I hope your mother and boyfriend come around! Big Smile

Drexeloct · August 2011

Welcome Gracie!!

We are here for you if you need to talk.

CTbride79 · August 2011

Welcome! I'm so sorry that your mom and BF took the news badly, but like the other girls said, so glad you found us! Just know matter what, you are never alone! And yes, you should definitely start taking folic acid...my OGYN recommends at least 1 mg. I think it was mentioned above, but you should also take a multi-vitamin (most prenatal multis have folic acid in them) and a fish oil supplement as well.

lenfant1201 · August 2011

Most of my family started having kids in their teens. At the time, I felt bad for them. Now, at 33 and pregnant with my 3rd, I'm a little jealous that their kids are almost out of the house & I'm just getting started!

This will be hard, no doubt, and you'll probably miss out on doing some things in your 20s that your friends will do, BUT there are positives to every situation. You'll only be 35 or 36 when this baby graduates high school--you'll have your whole life in front of you!

Take care of yourself, find support where you can, and hang in there!!

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