How much do you actually feel if you've had an epidural. I've always thought of myself as someone who has a high tolerence for pain, but I am definatly planning on having the epidural if I can. We're not pregnant yet, but we're considering trying to concieve soon.
Re: silly newbie question
Thanks! It helps to know that there is something you can get to aleviate the horrible pain but still not leave you feeling paralized. I think it would freak me out a little bit to not be able to feel ANYthing.
Well you can read my birth story below. If they had not turned it back at the crowning I would have felt no pain whatsoever, onlly pressure like during labour. Also you can wiggle your toes and I was able to get up and walk to the bathroom (I had DH's arm to lean on until I got to the door, after that I held the door for safety but I was really fine). It kind of felt like walking after you've just woken up, like you need to go slow but you're fine.
It was GREAT having the epidural. Best part of the birth process (other than the outcome obviously!).?
Sounds like the prior answer had the old fashioned 1950s kind of epi. Many big hospitals now have walking epis which I had - totally different. Should not be confused with each other.
Check out the book Enjoy your Labor by Gilbert Grant - it explains all the different options and risks and benefits BOTH ways (not many people know there are risks to NOT having an epi for some people!). I was one of those people - I would for sure have had a c section but for the epi. And lots of babies are born more oxygenated because the mother's cortisol (stress hormone) is not elevated by pain.
?Yes you still need an IV for emergences (though many non-epi births in hospitals have those too) and yes you'll still mostly be in bed (but with no pain that is not a problem). But it is FAR from paralysing.
I happen to personally think that if you didn't scream for the epi you weren't suffering enough to get the message that epis are fantastic.?
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