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yellowtulips80yellowtulips80 member
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So I told administration today that I'm pregnant.  I'm glad I got that over with.  But now I don't know what to do about my co-worker.  I don't want to hurt her feelings.

I sort of befriended this co-worker last school year and she struggles with infertility.  She wants children but can't seem to have any of her own.  I don't know all the details of her situation or how long she has been on this path.  She has pretty much given up hope.  It is not like we do stuff outside of work together.  So, here is my situation.  How do I out myself without hurting her?  Should I email her or tell her face to face?  She isn't on my team so I won't be working with her directly this year but I still don't want any hard feelings.

  

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  • Daisy22Daisy22 member
    I would email her to tell her. This way if she does get upset she can do it privately.
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  • kegkeg member

    imageDaisy22:
    I would email her to tell her. This way if she does get upset she can do it privately.

    Ditto. 

    2004-Started TTC; Nov 2007-Lap with endo removed; Jan 2008-Ectopic (mtx); April 2008-IVF #1 (bfp, twin girls); March 2011-FET (cp); June 2012-IVF #2 (bfp, singleton, EDD 3-19-12)

    ***Twin fraternal girls born at 35w6d in 12/2008***

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  • care99care99 member
    Having gone thru struggles TTC, I would say don't single her out.  If you email a group of co-workers, then include her.  But if you tell everyone else in person and send her an email, it's just going make her feel singled out about the situation, imo.
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