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Riley ~ 08/18/2008
natural m/c 9/7/07
missed m/c 8/1/11 d&c 8/18/11
lost another baby
We had our second u/s this morning and there was a seven week sac but nothing in it. We had the option to wait a few weeks to miscarry or have a d and c. I chose to wait it out. We miscarried our first so I know what to expect. I hope it happens soon. I still feel pregnant which sucks. We are obviously upset and are more than likely just gonna stick with our family of three.
I feel sort of lost...I quit to stay home with Riley and be home with our future babies. Now there won't be any future babies. I think I am gonna stay home for a few more months then look for something part-time.
Riley ~ 08/18/2008
natural m/c 9/7/07
missed m/c 8/1/11 d&c 8/18/11This discussion has been closed.
Re: lost another baby
I'm so sorry.
If you feel that working part time would be the best for you, then do it, and don't let anyone make you feel bad for it. You know what's right for you and your family, and if working will help you to get through this, then go do it. I worked retail when I was dealing with infertility issues and it really helped me to have a "hobby" to take my mind off of everything that I was dealing with.
BFP 5/07 - Kylie born 2/08. BPF 2/09 - Alexandra born 10/09.
TTC since 8/13 - diagnosed difficulty conceiving due to LP defect. Took vitamin B and Vitex Berry to help lengthen.
BFP 2/14 - Missed M/C found at 8.5 weeks. D&C at 9w2d. Partial Molar Pregnancy.
BFP 11/14
My Pregnancy(ies) Blog
...no thanks to my PCOS (Dx 2006,though should've been dx during maybe the Clinton years).
P/SAIF always welcome, especially if you share your sticky baby dust! **Looking to buy some gently used, one size Fuzzibunz. PM/Page me if you're selling. Thanks!**
(((HUGS)))) I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost twin boys in 2010. Pregnancy loss is traumatic.
Have you considered getting bloodwork for a Recurring Pregnancy Loss (RPL panel)? Many, MANY of the ladies on TTCAL, PgAL, PAL have all had it done and it gave them a diagnosis that they were able to treat the next time around.
Twin boys born too early at 17w4d and 18w2d in February 2010
Transabdominal cerclage placed September 2010
DS born at 35w1d in February 2011
Twin girls born at exactly 36w in February 2013
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I don't know what to say, I wish I could offer some comfort, but I know there are no words from anyone that can take away the pain you are feeling.
A little bit of a different situation- my dad recently passed and my mom was thinking of changing her job or moving in with her parents and DH and I were thinking of moving closer to my mom. None of these things were needed ... our pastor recommended that we wait at least six months after the loss to make any permanent plans because it takes time to process through emotions and decide what really should be done in response. For now, it might be best just to focus on what is going to help you and be best for your family short term, without worrying about if you are going to SAH over the next few years or until Riley goes to school. If you pick up part time work now to help you get your mind off things, it doesn't have to be long term, or it could be, you really don't have to decide right now.
Again, I'm really sorry.
Thank you for the kind words! I am not going to make any decisions about anything right now. I just feel lost and feel like the life has been sucked out of me. I am thankful for Riley as she can make me smile and laugh!! My DH is great too. I know we will get through it but is sucks.
Thanks again ladies, you are always so kind.
DS 3.12.08
DD 7.11.09
DD 8.01.13