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New Here

Hi ladies,

I am joining here from the January 2012 board.  We lost our little one at 13w last week (1st pregnancy). I had my D&E on Friday.  Today was my first day back to work and I thought it would be great because it would keep me busy, but BOY was I wrong..Tongue Tied I had everyone coming up to me saying sorry and asked how I was doing, and some who didn't know asked about the baby.. it was just too much all at once.

Anyways, I am hoping this spotting doesn't last long and AF comes soon so we can get back on the BD train.  

I hope to get to know you ladies like I did on the January board.  I have missed having somewhere to post and feeling like I didn't belong.  I lurked here last week and it helped with a lot of my stress. It reminded me that I am not alone.

Anyways, thanks for listening. I hope I can inspire some women, like you have all inspired me. Smile


BFP #1 5/26/11 - said goodbye to our DD at 13w on 7/29/2011 

Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers 
BFP #2 12/16/11 - Chemical Pregnancy
BFP #3 1/21/12 - Welcome Zoey Paige - 9/23/12! 
Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker 
BFP #4 11/27/13 - STICK BABY!
married 7.26.08 

Re: New Here

  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you find lots of comfort and support here. From your siggy alone I know that we share similar taste in television Smile
    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
    Married 9/22/07, began TTC 8/10
    Diagnosed with DOR, LP defect, mild endometriosis and cysts
    BFP #1 EDD 9/10/11, natural miscarriage at 6w
    BFP #2 Medicated cycle, twin boys born 4/4/12 at 29w4d
    BFP #3 EDD 8/8/14, D&C for missed miscarriage at 8w, baby boy with triploidy
    BFP #4 June 2014 CP
  • I'm so sorry for your loss and welcome to the board!
    5/16/2005: M/C at 7 wks
    5/3/2010: MM/C at 7 wks 6 days
    5/25/2014: CP at 4 wks 3 days

    Because of the great "Snow"vember of 2015, my medicated cycle was cancelled.  However, we were blessed with our little rainbow baby due on 8/14/15!  Baby J had other plans and decided to make his grand ole entrance on 7/4/2015!

    Surprise!  Our little girl entered this world on 12/8/2016 after her eviction notice was long past due.  Our little turkey baby turned into a snow baby!  

    Third times the charm!  BFP on 4/18/2019, EDD: 12/18/2019
    PgAL/PAL welcome
    PAIF/SAIF welcome too!

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. This board is a wonderful place to give and get support.


    "Do not anticipate trouble, or worry about what may never happen. Keep in the sunlight."
    BabyFruit Ticker}
    BFP #1: 6/10/11 Natural m/c 6/20/11
    BFP #2: 8/30/11 Vanishing Twin diagnosed at 8 weeks, DS born 5/6/12 
    BFP #3: 5/24/14 stick, baby, stick! Beta 1 (16dpo): 645, Beta 2 (18dpo): 1652
    Heartbeat 179 at 8w5d grow, baby, grow!

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

  • I was on the January board once upon a time as well...I discovered I had a missed m/c at 9wk5d.  welcome...although I am sorry you have to be here.  I hope that you have a short stay!
    Chemical Pregnancy 2001, Married 8/8/09, TTC April 2011, BFP 5/8/11, Missed M/C @ 9wk5d, D&C 6/21/11 BFP 11/13/11 Chase Everett born at 29wks 0 days on 5/7/12 at 2 lbs 14 oz, 14 1/2 inches long.
  • I am sorry for your loss, but welcome to the board. I hope your stay here is short, and I hope that you can find the comfort and support you need here.
    First BFP April 2011, EDD 01/11/11, MMC June 20, 2011 D&C June 20, 2011 Second BFP September 23, 20011 CP diagnosed September 26, 2011 PAL/PGAL welcome
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
  • I am very sorry for your loss!! I have not been able to post much on here, but the ladies here are absolutely wonderful. I find it comforting to be able to lurk, and post, somewhere where others have gone through a similar/same expericence.
    BFP 7/6/11 Natural m/c 7/20/11 @ 6w2d
    BFP 9/25/11 Grow baby grow!
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • I'm so very sorry to hear about your loss.  I hope you continue to find all the support you need from this board and that you get your take-home baby very soon.
    Me (28): fine, DH (28): MFI
    Married 6/21/09
    Off BCP and TTC 4/17/11
    BFP #1 (ended in CP) 7/15/11
    Varicocelectomy surgery 9/4/12 - T improved to normal, but still low count

    Current Status: Pursuing Jan '15 IVF w/ ICSI
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

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  • Hi,

     I am really sorry for your loss. I like your signature, enjoy the vampires myself. 

     Welcome to the board, hoping your stay is short and sweet. 


  • Hello! I'm new to posting here too.  I have found reading the board has really helped me and I am sure it will help you too!  I'm sorry for your loss and I hope that each day gets a little better for you.
    Me, 33, SLP, doctoral student, & DJ
    BFP#1 4/3/11, natural m/c 4/12/11 at 6w4d
    BFP#2 8/14/11, EDD 4/19/12, PGAL!, A/S 12/1/11 It's a girl! Faye Violet M.

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Thanks everyone!


    BFP #1 5/26/11 - said goodbye to our DD at 13w on 7/29/2011 

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers 
    BFP #2 12/16/11 - Chemical Pregnancy
    BFP #3 1/21/12 - Welcome Zoey Paige - 9/23/12! 
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker 
    BFP #4 11/27/13 - STICK BABY!
    married 7.26.08 

  • I'm sorry about your loss. This is a great place for support. The ladies here are awesome. It's a great place to share your thoughts, feelings, etc. I do find that every day gets a bit better, but I know much of that is due to the support I get on this board.
    BFP 5.04.11 | EDD 1.17.11 | missed MC 5.27.11 found at 6.16.11 image image image ?PAL/PGAL Welcome?
  • I'm very sorry for your loss, but glad that you're feeling well enough to jump on the board with us.  :)  Welcome!
    Anniversary Daisypath Happy Birthday tickers
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
    PitaPata Dog tickers PitaPata Dog tickers

    ~Started TTC 2/09. BFP #1 11/09. EDD 8/7/10. DS born 8/7/10.~
    ~Surprise BFP #2 5/11 while still BF'ing. Natural M/C @ 7w3d.~
    ~BFP #3 8/11. EDD 4/24/12. Heavy bleeding episodes from a lost twin. DD born 4/14/12.~
    ~Started TTC 2/13. BFP #4 3/13. EDD 11/8/13. Hoping for smooth sailing!~
  • Welcome to the TTCAL board. I'm sorry you have to be here, but as you can see, you are not alone. I'm so sorry for your loss.  I hope you find all the support you need here and take good care of yourself during this difficult time.  ((BIG HUGS))

    BFP#1: 7/14/10.  EDD: 3/19/11--MMC-- D&C 9/2/10.
    BFP#2: 12:22/10.EDD: 8/30/11 C/P 12/25/10
    BFP#3: 10/26/11 EDD: 7/2/12-- Daniel born 7/14/12. My rainbow baby!                                                                                                                                           BFP #4:  2.22/15 EDD: 11/4/15 C/P 2/28/15                                                                                                                                                                                      BFP #5:  4/5/15   EDD 12/11/15 (Ectopic Pregnancy)

    BFP #6: 3/2/16 EDD 11/5/16
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