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Placing

HayleyProudMamaHayleyProudMama
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Its scarier the second time around, thinking about placing these babies im scared and I know ive been through it but I feel like my heart has just started to heal and I no longer am feeling the constant small ache in my chest.. I got a notice today of eviction, I got"let go" at work, I have no place to live and honestly I feel like a *** mother, I feel like im worthless and it sucks because I felt I was so ready, and i just need someone anyone. Im afraid for myself right now.  Please someone

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Re: Placing

  • LJF1218LJF1218

    It sounds like you are unable to care for the new babies you are carrying since you are facing eviction and unemployment.  If there is a possibility you can turn that around, perhaps by turning to family members then it may be possible for you to keep your children.  But you need to have real support in order to be a single mother (and of twins, no less!), both financial and emotional.  Perhaps you should post on the Adoption board, though, if you are looking for further advice about your options in that arena.  I read that you placed your older daughter and that situation is a positive one so hopefully if you do go that route you can have a similar situation with the adoptive family of these children.

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