TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Coming Back

I never announced my BFP here, but I got a BFP on July 1st after FET #1.

Unfortunately, I just found out I'm having my second m/c. I went for my 7w3d u/s yesterday. Baby's heart is still beating, but it was only 120 and baby is measuring a week behind. Doc said there is no hope for this one. I had an idea because my betas slowed way down around 5 weeks, but that doesn't make it any easier. D&C is tentatively scheduled for August 9th. We just have to wait till the hb stops completely or the baby measures 2 weeks behind.

And the really fun part is I have to continue my Estrace, Crinone, and Prometrium for the next 12 days in an attempt to not miscarry naturally on my work trip next week.  I will be out of the state for a full week. 

 We will be doing another fresh IVF in October, and we are going to start looking into adoption.  I never thought I would be dealing with infertility and RPL.  I'm also going to go to my first Resolve support group tonight.  Anyone been to one of those?
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Re: Coming Back

  • I'm so sorry!  Having to deal with RPL and IF is absolutely heartbreaking!

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    DX with Diminished Ovarian Reserve - AMH of 1.1 - 7/2011; AMH of .42 8/2012
    BFP 9/1/10-M/C confirmed 9/8/10-Methotrexate 10/6/10
    IUI #1 (w/clomid)-9/5/11-BFN ; IUI #2 (w/clomid)-10/5/11 - BFP - 11/1/12-No sac seen; 11/2/11 and 11/9/11-Methotrexate 
    IVF #1- ER 2/2; ET 2/5;-Two 8 cell embryos transfered = BFFN
    Surprise BFP - 5/7/12
    U/S on 6/8/12 - H/B at 128 BPM; U/S on 6/14/12 @ 9wks-No H/B-D&C on 6/17/12
    IVF 2.0- ER 10/17; ET 10/20-One 12 cell, one 10 cell and one 8 cell embryo transfered
    BFP!   11/16/12 U/S- Two nuggets with perfect heartbeats! EDD 7/10/13

     

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  • Oh hun, I'm so, so sorry. Super huge ((HUGS)).

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  • Olive, I'm so, so sorry. I was so hopeful the lupron was going to help.

    I've been going to Resolve meetings since Jan 2010 and have even hosted a couple when our regular coordinator is out of town. I've found it very helpful to have that face-to-face interaction with people who live near me and are going through this.

    ((hugs))
  • Oh Olive, this is so not OK. I am so very, very sorry that this is happening again...it's not fair.

    {{{HUGS}}}

    12 long, hard years of TTC-
    Miscarriages, losses, lots of treatments & drugs & IVF


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  • Sending hugs, I'm so sorry. I haven't been to a resolve meeting, but hope it goes well. I wish I had a resolve meeting closer.

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    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • Olive I'm so unbelievably sorry this whole thing is so unfair! I've never been to a Resolve meeting but I've heard good things about them. ((HUGS)) I hope you find a ton of support there!

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    8/08 BFP resulted in m/c
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    6/09 IUI#2 with Clomid=BFN
    8/09 IUI#3 with Clomid=BFN
    IVF#1 = BFN
    IVF#2 = BFN
    IVF#3 ET 2 Grade A blasts 11/16/11
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  • This breaks my heart.  I am so very sorry, Olive.  Huge hugs. 
    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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  • I'm so sorry, Olive. ((hugs))
    Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section
  • I'm so sorry, Olive. This isn't fair and I hate that you are being given so much pain to cope with. Waiting is horrible, just horrible.  I'm praying that the hb and growth pick up, even though I understand you may not mentally want to go there right now.
    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

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  • I'm sorry this is happening to you.  I'm praying for a miracle but also for peace and strength for you in case the worse does happen.

    I've never been to Resolve but I've heard they are good.  Our local chapter isn't very local ( over an hour away).  I hopeyou can find some support and comfort there.

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  • Hugs hun, I am so sorry.  I hope the support group goes well, I've heard good things.  Thinking of you!
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  • I am so sorry.

     

  • Oh love. I'm so, so sorry. I hate hearing this!
  • I am so sorry hun!  Sending you tons of love and hugs!
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  • I hate this. I'm so sorry hon.

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
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  • Oh honey I am so, so sorry.  This is just awful and it breaks my heart.   ((((hugs))))

    Why does IF and RPL have to go together for so many of us?  It is just so unfair.   

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  • I'm so very sorry.
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  • I am so sorry.  This is just not
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  • I am so sorry.  This is
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  • I am so sorry.  This is just not fair. 
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  • And I have no idea why TB just did that to me.  So, sorry again.  :(
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  • {{{hugs}}} I am so sorry for your loss.


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    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • I am so, so sorry!  It's not fair!
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  • I'm so sorry Olive!  Thinking of you.  ((hugs))
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  • I'm late with this, but you know I adore you Olive and am so, so very sorry for your losses.  I hate that you're going through this again, love. 

    Huge, huge hugs. 

    BFP#1 10/19/09, m/c 12/5/09, BFP#2 2/03/12, m/c 2/12/12, BFP#3 3/18/13, LO born 11/22/13

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