yes and yes, otherwise we'd never kiss during sex lol
lol same here. And I can't have sex without kissing! Someone mentioned it being gross so I didn't know if I was the only one who does it. I can see someone thinking it's strange, but it's fine with us.
I figure since he's willing to actually go down there then I'd better be willing to kiss him afterwards. Idk... otherwise it would seem like such a double standard to me.
Born at 26 weeks 2 days gestation, 2 pounds 2 ounces due to IC/PTL,
and after 82 days in the NICU, our little girl is home!
I used to be so skeptical on this because in my mind it was like me tasting myself or him tasting himself but we kiss no matter who goes down on who before,during,and after.
It's been forever, but yes to both. Then again, if I tried giving him oral sex right now I probably would vomit and that would really kill any mood that had half a chance of even being there in the first place.
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It's been forever, but yes to both. Then again, if I tried giving him oral sex right now I probably would vomit and that would really kill any mood that had half a chance of even being there in the first place.
this makes me sad
The gagging thing did happen to me when i did it in the begining. I started laughing and looked at him and said "don't take it personally it's not your fault" I don't think he cared he was just happy he was getting some his schedual is hard to work around but we do what we can because it's SO important to stay connected!
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While it doesnt bother MH to kiss me after I go down, it does bother me to kiss him after he's done with me. However, like I said in the last post, I much prefer just intercourse to oral on me so it's rare that we have that issue.
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Yes and yes again! We are all on this board for one reason, pregnancy. If your sharing every other bodily fluid, whats kissing after oral? Haha. Kissing for me makes sex passionate and reminds me of the goosebumps I got when we first started dating!!
While it doesnt bother MH to kiss me after I go down, it does bother me to kiss him after he's done with me. However, like I said in the last post, I much prefer just intercourse to oral on me so it's rare that we have that issue.
Kara I'm actually the opposite of you, I rarely orgasm during sex, but oral gets me every single time.
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While it doesnt bother MH to kiss me after I go down, it does bother me to kiss him after he's done with me. However, like I said in the last post, I much prefer just intercourse to oral on me so it's rare that we have that issue.
Kara I'm actually the opposite of you, I rarely orgasm during sex, but oral gets me every single time.
Haha! I wish I could get off during oral! But I cant! It takes FOREVER. Maybe Im just impatient haha. I much prefer intercourse because I feel like I get satisfied all the way. MH is a big fan of "ahem" manual stimulation on me so I get the whole package (litterally haha) that way!
:::Goes and pouts in a corner that I wont get either for the next four months:( Stupid deployment...:::
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Could you ladies please please please stop flaunting your oral sex:( In the 3.5 yrs we have been together DH has gone down on me once maybe twice. I miss oral. So sad....
TTC#1 for 19 months with PCOS and MFI IUI#3 + injectables = BFP!!!! Beta#1-134(13dpiui) Beta #2-392(15dpiui) #1 born December 2011
TTC#2 - Beta #1 -51@10dpo Beta#2 -1353 @16dpo #2 born May 2013
TTC # 3 June 2014 BFP 12-1-14
#3 born August 2015 #4!!!!!!! due June 2017
Heh guess I'm in the minority...I don't like kissing H when he's done with me. He has facial hair and stuff gets stuck in there lol. He will kiss me after I do him, but only if he doesn't blow his load in my mouth. Yes we are children. And I don't like kissing during sex, MH is a face smasher (plus his facial hair equals pain) and he gets really drooly and sloppy. Sex and kissing is too much for his mind to process at the same time.
While it doesnt bother MH to kiss me after I go down, it does bother me to kiss him after he's done with me. However, like I said in the last post, I much prefer just intercourse to oral on me so it's rare that we have that issue.
Kara I'm actually the opposite of you, I rarely orgasm during sex, but oral gets me every single time.
Haha! I wish I could get off during oral! But I cant! It takes FOREVER. Maybe Im just impatient haha. I much prefer intercourse because I feel like I get satisfied all the way. MH is a big fan of "ahem" manual stimulation on me so I get the whole package (litterally haha) that way!
:::Goes and pouts in a corner that I wont get either for the next four months:( Stupid deployment...:::
AW, so sorry about the deployment, but thankful for the sacrifice both of you make.
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Heh guess I'm in the minority...I don't like kissing H when he's done with me. He has facial hair and stuff gets stuck in there lol. He will kiss me after I do him, but only if he doesn't blow his load in my mouth. Yes we are children. And I don't like kissing during sex, MH is a face smasher (plus his facial hair equals pain) and he gets really drooly and sloppy. Sex and kissing is too much for his mind to process at the same time.
BWAHAHAHAHAHA, this is hilarious.
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Heh guess I'm in the minority...I don't like kissing H when he's done with me. He has facial hair and stuff gets stuck in there lol. He will kiss me after I do him, but only if he doesn't blow his load in my mouth. Yes we are children. And I don't like kissing during sex, MH is a face smasher (plus his facial hair equals pain) and he gets really drooly and sloppy. Sex and kissing is too much for his mind to process at the same time.
We are the same way, lol. Glad I'm not alone! Oral on me since being pregnant though...nonexistent!
Re: S/O Oral Sex.
lol same here. And I can't have sex without kissing! Someone mentioned it being gross so I didn't know if I was the only one who does it. I can see someone thinking it's strange, but it's fine with us.
yes and yes
Me- yes, Him- half/half sometimes he doesn't care but normally he tries to avoid it.
and after 82 days in the NICU, our little girl is home!
What's oral sex, or any sex for that matter? Lol.
It's been forever, but yes to both. Then again, if I tried giving him oral sex right now I probably would vomit and that would really kill any mood that had half a chance of even being there in the first place.
this makes me sad
The gagging thing did happen to me when i did it in the begining. I started laughing and looked at him and said "don't take it personally it's not your fault" I don't think he cared he was just happy he was getting some
his schedual is hard to work around but we do what we can because it's SO important to stay connected!
Breastfeeding and pregnant!
Yes and yes again! We are all on this board for one reason, pregnancy. If your sharing every other bodily fluid, whats kissing after oral? Haha. Kissing for me makes sex passionate and reminds me of the goosebumps I got when we first started dating!!
Kara I'm actually the opposite of you, I rarely orgasm during sex, but oral gets me every single time.
Haha! I wish I could get off during oral! But I cant! It takes FOREVER. Maybe Im just impatient haha. I much prefer intercourse because I feel like I get satisfied all the way. MH is a big fan of "ahem" manual stimulation on me so I get the whole package (litterally haha) that way!
:::Goes and pouts in a corner that I wont get either for the next four months:( Stupid deployment...:::
TTC#1 for 19 months with PCOS and MFI IUI#3 + injectables = BFP!!!! Beta#1-134(13dpiui) Beta #2-392(15dpiui)
#1 born December 2011
TTC#2 - Beta #1 -51@10dpo Beta#2 -1353 @16dpo
#2 born May 2013
TTC # 3 June 2014 BFP 12-1-14
#3 born August 2015
#4!!!!!!! due June 2017
AW, so sorry about the deployment, but thankful for the sacrifice both of you make.
BWAHAHAHAHAHA, this is hilarious.
We are the same way, lol. Glad I'm not alone! Oral on me since being pregnant though...nonexistent!
I'm in the same boat as you!