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after everything dont want to jinx it

Daniem0828Daniem0828
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is anyone else afraid they will jinx it? i know im 19 weeks now but im not gaining weight. i do know what im having.. i still havent told a lot of my friends or family and def havent put it on facebook im still afraid for some odd reason to put it out there.. is anyone else crazy like me??
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  • jcathjcath member

    I think we all feel that way.  I have never said anything on facebook and I'm not going to.  I waited as long as I could to tell people but eventually I think you have to decide a)it's becoming obvious and b) you just have to will yourself to let yourself be happy about it.

    I'm sorry you are having such a hard time.

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  • NicoleeBonsaiNicoleeBonsai member

    i feel the same way. i think, hmmm, if i buy this or that, will that jinx it? my husband sometimes refers to me as mommy and i'm like no, i'm nicole. i just can't put my mind there yet!

    i haven't put it on FB yet either, and i'm not sure i'm going to. i've been leaning towards doing it now that i'm in the third trimester and everything feels much more real. but IF can really mess with your head!

    you aren't crazy.

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  • steveandkim2steveandkim2 member

    I'm right there with you -- you are not alone.  When I "popped" I had to come out b/c its visible and people know I'm pregnant. 

    But its been hard for me to fully accept/embrace that this is real (which is sad).   I still haven't registered yet (which my mom yells at me for every day b/c apparantly my shower is planned and soon but she doesn't want to send the invites until I register).  My parents graciously offered to pay for our nursery, so we picked it out and eveyr day my mom wantsto go pay for it/order it, but I can't bring myself to do it.  I still have the "what if" fear which is sad.   I just feel like after so much heartbreak, I need to do everything I can to protect my emotions.

    (and as I type this he's kicking my fiercely ---as if to say "mom you're crazy!  I'm going to be here soon so you better get off your butt and get ready for me).

    TTC since April 2009 dx = PCOS; TTC History for DS - A FET miracle after 7 IUIs; 2 fresh transfers, and 1 other FET resulted in BFNs. Hoping and Praying for baby #2: Cycle 1 - FET; November 2012 BFN Next Steps - who knows? Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
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