I keep reading about all of you hearing the heartbeat at 9/10Weeks + and we still haven't "heared it" but saw it. Is this normal? I know with my daughter I think my 2nd appointment was around 12 weeks and we heard it then no problem. I know the baby is down low since that is where the Dr had the ultrasound thing yesterday.
I keep trying to reassure myself thinking 1.) its a boy
with a low quiet heartbeat like daddy and/or 2.) the baby wants to wait until Daddy and MIL are here...
Just wondering what you all think?
Re: Worried
DH became a double above knee amputee with traumatic brain injury (TBI) - July 2009
TTC - August 2009 DX: Severe MFI & TF due to TBI
DH SA 0 count, started clomid therapy - November 2010
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I don't believe that God ever tells us "no". he has three options. Yes, not right now, or I have something better in mind. We just have to wait & see.
I think it depends on a lot of factors like position of the baby, weight of the mother, etc. My doctor found it at 9w but warned me first that it was still very early and that he might not be able to find it. It took him a while to search for it as well, so maybe your doctor just hasn't "hit" the right spot (I know when I use my at home doppler, I have to have just the right angle to hear it - and sometimes doctors don't have the extra time to search every square inch).
Congrats on seeing the heartbeat though - at least you know all is well
I only saw the heartbeat on ultrasound during my first appointment (I was 8w4d). My drs. office doesn't listen to the heartbeat via ultrasound that early.
My next appointment is at 13w4d and I'm assuming I'll hear the heartbeat via. doppler then.