Success after IF

Having a m/c sucks, in case you didn't know.

Emotionally, I'm screwed up, we all know that.

Physically, I was fine....

...up until yesterday, when the "real" bleeding/cramping started. This is like a period but 10 x's worse. Good thing I had a follow-up appointment this morning with my ob/gyn. She said the bleeding/cramping was totally normal and should last about a week. The u/s showed the lining deteriorating and my cervix was closed, both which are good things. I come back next week for one last check-up and u/s.

At this point, I don't know what to do regarding TTC again. One thing's for sure, we're using protection until we start a medicated cycle, whenever that is.

I just want this all to be over. 

TTC#1=Feb 2009: 50 mg Clomid+Ovidrel shot+Metformin+Dexamethasone+TI=BFP!
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Re: Having a m/c sucks, in case you didn't know.

  • I'm so sorry, hon.  (((hugs)))
    Allison
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  • I am so sorry.  MC's blow big time.  The emotional part takes so long and there are still days that I mourn my loss and it was 4 years ago.  Take care of yourself.
    TTC#1 since Feb 07 with PCOS and mild MFI
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  • :(:(:( so sorry

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  • Thanks, guys. I'm ok...really.

    Talking to my friend who's had one, my MIL who's had two and you guys has really really helped me cope. Of course, my H and son have given me nothing my showers of kisses and hugs.

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  • It all just sucks.  I'm so sorry you are going through this.
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  • So sorry you're going through this.  Miscarriages really do a number on you, physically and mentally.  Huge hugs.

    Kelly, Mom to Christopher Shannon 9.27.06, Catherine Quinn 2.24.09, Trey Barton lost on 12.28.09, Therese Barton lost on 6.10.10, Joseph Sullivan 7.23.11, and our latest, Victoria Maren 11.15.12

    Secondary infertility success with IVF, then two losses, one at 14 weeks and one at 10 weeks, then success with IUI and then just pure, crazy luck.  Expecting our fifth in May as the result of a FET.

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  • I'm so sorry. Many hugs to you.
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  • I'm so sorry!  I can't imagine how you must be feeling. 
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  • I'm so sorry. If it's any comfort, I felt much better emotionally starting after the physical part was over. Waiting to m/c is awfully painful. ((hugs))
  • It does suck.

    Bad.

    And I'm so sorry that you know this first hand.

    I promise that it gets easier with time.

    Our IF journey: 1 m/c, 1 IVF with only 3 eggs retrieved yielding Dylan and a lost twin, 1 shocker unmedicated BFP resulting in Jace, 3 more unmedicated pregnancies ending in more losses.
    Total score: 6 pregnancies, 5 losses, 2 amazing blessings that I'm thankful for every single day.
  • Oh honey, I'm so sorry to hear this. ((HUGS))
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