Dh is being an arse to the kids lately. I think it would help if he was even the tiniest bit active in any of Ty's therapies or even the home visits, but he just tells me he doesn't get it. He doesn't understand why we can't just tell Ty to be normal and have him be normal and perfect. Lately I have been wondering if he has been living in some other family for the last 4 yrs. It is driving me mad! I feel like the only people in the entire world who understands my life are his teachers and therapists, that helps Ty but it doesn't help me much.
I got cavities filled 3 weeks ago. I STILL have pain from it. Constant dull ache, so annoying. Oh, and did my teeth hurt at all going in? No way. I didn't even know I had any.
Just got the paperwork from the dental insurance. They denied one of the teeth bc it had been done less than 24 months before. Not that anyone told me before. But even if they did, what was I going to do, say well....lets see how much worse that cavity can get then while waiting for them to cover it.
Oh, and to continue my whine - the cavity being done itself was horrible. It took 4 hours of my day off. Plus, I never got numb. She gave me 2 shots, started drilling and it was so painful. She stopped and basically told me she will give me another shot, but if it is too much for me, she will just have me come back. Uhh, I have a hole half drilled in my tooth and like I really want to come back on another day off?? The third shot didn't work either. I had to breathe thru it. Sucky suck suck, I hate all things dental related.
I hate pads! Sorry if TMI......but my post surgery bleeding (normal) requires a pad and now that it is slowing down my period is due! So, more pads it is! I am on pelvic rest.....nothing in the vagina for 4-6 weeks!
I am also dying to talk to the oncologist who did it. He never came in after to tell me how it went or what he thought. I am not sure how long to wait before I call and ask for pathology report either.....the results scare me too. My follow up with him isn't until Sep 1.....and then again in Nov for the real results (how I healed and if I am clear).
My sister is driving me ape $hit. Their friends just had a baby and she keeps talking about how she can't wait to babysit... but I have to pay her to babysit here b/c she's "soooo busy and stressed out".
I'm stalled in my weight lose and I'm beyond frustrated. I was overweight when I got pregnant so I had an additional 19lbs to lose. I've lost 13 of them since May. DH and I always have a Disney diet- our whole families know. So yesterday I'm in my kitchen...
My sis says, "uh oh 3 months til Disney, time for the diet, huh?"
Me," well we've been dieting since the end of May actually"
Her, "Really?!?!hmmm..."
Me, " Yeah I've lost 13lbs"
Her, "Oh, I couldn't really tell. Don't worry you look fine. I mean you're almost 30 anyways."
I'm stalled in my weight lose and I'm beyond frustrated. I was overweight when I got pregnant so I had an additional 19lbs to lose. I've lost 13 of them since May. DH and I always have a Disney diet- our whole families know. So yesterday I'm in my kitchen...
My sis says, "uh oh 3 months til Disney, time for the diet, huh?"
Me," well we've been dieting since the end of May actually"
Her, "Really?!?!hmmm..."
Me, " Yeah I've lost 13lbs"
Her, "Oh, I couldn't really tell. Don't worry you look fine. I mean you're almost 30 anyways."
Oh my.
My whine is that DH planned a fishing trip with a friend for a weekend in August. He has been trying to plan it for 3 or 4 years and his friend (who lives in Vermont but who DH has known since pre-school) always had an excuse not to go. Of course he can go this year when I'm going to be 35.5 weeks pregnant and we still haven't started the nursery! I'm really glad that it finally worked out but the timing just sucks. At least he'll only be about 3 hours away and will be able to make it home in time if I happen to go into labor, which is HIGHLY unlikely anyway. I'm more stressed about the amount of work that needs to be done before Junior arrives.
I need to vent about DH... I love the man to death, but he a slob one minute, then compulsively cleaning up the next.
Yesterday I spent most of the afternoon cleaning up both bedrooms... dusting, vacuuming, catching up on and putting away tons of laundry, changing sheets etc. He just left for work and I came into our bedroom- there is a pair of pants, 2 pairs of shorts, a pile of t-shirts, a polo and 2 pairs of shoes thrown about the room, along w/ his dirty clothes on the floor. (when there is a laundry basket 2 feet away from where he tossed them.) I guess he couldn't decide what to wear to work today?
Yet, last night he decided he needed to wipe up the kitchen floor because it was "a mess" I just washed the floor Sunday when we got home, so it wasn't a mess. I hate when he cleans, because it makes me feel like I'm doing a sub-par job of keeping up w/ the house.
Let me do the cleaning, and just pick up after yourself and I'd be happy!
Yesterday I spent most of the afternoon cleaning up both bedrooms... dusting, vacuuming, catching up on and putting away tons of laundry, changing sheets etc. He just left for work and I came into our bedroom- there is a pair of pants, 2 pairs of shorts, a pile of t-shirts, a polo and 2 pairs of shoes thrown about the room, along w/ his dirty clothes on the floor. (when there is a laundry basket 2 feet away from where he tossed them.) I guess he couldn't decide what to wear to work today?
I'm sorry, are we married to the same man? DH has his "pile". It's usually a pile of clean clothes just tossed on the floor between our dressers. It gets bigger and bigger until it makes me stabby and I have to "nag" him to make him pick it up. Just put the clothes where they belong!!!!! And I feel you on the dirty clothes. We keep our hamper in the closet and most of the dirty clothes end up on the closet floor. WTF???
In the past 8 days, we have spent $1100 on my jeep (inspection and repairs) then the transmission on DH's car went a few days after that. So we are out almost $3000 because of stupid cars in about a week. Uggg!! I'm ready to shop around for a horse and buggy.
DHs work week is Sun-Wed; he travels, so he leaves Sat afternoon/evening. Just got a text from him that they aren't going to finish up what needs to be done today & he'll have to work OT tomorrow. UGH! So we'll basically see him Friday & half the day Sat. I pretty much just told him it almost wasn't worth him coming home for that short period of time!
Oh and of course my BIL (his brother works with him) is so far ahead in the work crew that he'll be home tonight. P!sses me off!!
Liana's sleep has turned into absolute crap over the past few weeks. It's been taking an average of 2-3 hours a night and 2-3 attempts before she is finally down for the night. And then she started waking up in the middle of the night when she has been STTN for months now. I thought it was teething related, but now she has two teeth that have come through and the sleeping wasn't getting any better. So, we decided it is time for sleep training (Ferber). I know that it will be best in the long run that she can go to sleep on her own, without nursing. Especially since she will be starting daycare in a month. But I just hate listening to her cry
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Re: **Whine Wednesday**
I got cavities filled 3 weeks ago. I STILL have pain from it. Constant dull ache, so annoying. Oh, and did my teeth hurt at all going in? No way. I didn't even know I had any.
Just got the paperwork from the dental insurance. They denied one of the teeth bc it had been done less than 24 months before. Not that anyone told me before. But even if they did, what was I going to do, say well....lets see how much worse that cavity can get then while waiting for them to cover it.
Oh, and to continue my whine - the cavity being done itself was horrible. It took 4 hours of my day off. Plus, I never got numb. She gave me 2 shots, started drilling and it was so painful. She stopped and basically told me she will give me another shot, but if it is too much for me, she will just have me come back. Uhh, I have a hole half drilled in my tooth and like I really want to come back on another day off?? The third shot didn't work either. I had to breathe thru it. Sucky suck suck, I hate all things dental related.
I hate pads! Sorry if TMI......but my post surgery bleeding (normal) requires a pad and now that it is slowing down my period is due! So, more pads it is! I am on pelvic rest.....nothing in the vagina for 4-6 weeks!
I am also dying to talk to the oncologist who did it. He never came in after to tell me how it went or what he thought. I am not sure how long to wait before I call and ask for pathology report either.....the results scare me too. My follow up with him isn't until Sep 1.....and then again in Nov for the real results (how I healed and if I am clear).
My sister is driving me ape $hit. Their friends just had a baby and she keeps talking about how she can't wait to babysit... but I have to pay her to babysit here b/c she's "soooo busy and stressed out".
I'm stalled in my weight lose and I'm beyond frustrated. I was overweight when I got pregnant so I had an additional 19lbs to lose. I've lost 13 of them since May. DH and I always have a Disney diet- our whole families know. So yesterday I'm in my kitchen...
My sis says, "uh oh 3 months til Disney, time for the diet, huh?"
Me," well we've been dieting since the end of May actually"
Her, "Really?!?!hmmm..."
Me, " Yeah I've lost 13lbs"
Her, "Oh, I couldn't really tell. Don't worry you look fine. I mean you're almost 30 anyways."
My whine is that DH planned a fishing trip with a friend for a weekend in August. He has been trying to plan it for 3 or 4 years and his friend (who lives in Vermont but who DH has known since pre-school) always had an excuse not to go. Of course he can go this year when I'm going to be 35.5 weeks pregnant and we still haven't started the nursery! I'm really glad that it finally worked out but the timing just sucks. At least he'll only be about 3 hours away and will be able to make it home in time if I happen to go into labor, which is HIGHLY unlikely anyway. I'm more stressed about the amount of work that needs to be done before Junior arrives.
I need to vent about DH... I love the man to death, but he a slob one minute, then compulsively cleaning up the next.
Yesterday I spent most of the afternoon cleaning up both bedrooms... dusting, vacuuming, catching up on and putting away tons of laundry, changing sheets etc. He just left for work and I came into our bedroom- there is a pair of pants, 2 pairs of shorts, a pile of t-shirts, a polo and 2 pairs of shoes thrown about the room, along w/ his dirty clothes on the floor. (when there is a laundry basket 2 feet away from where he tossed them.) I guess he couldn't decide what to wear to work today?
Yet, last night he decided he needed to wipe up the kitchen floor because it was "a mess" I just washed the floor Sunday when we got home, so it wasn't a mess. I hate when he cleans, because it makes me feel like I'm doing a sub-par job of keeping up w/ the house.
Let me do the cleaning, and just pick up after yourself and I'd be happy!
I'm sorry, are we married to the same man? DH has his "pile". It's usually a pile of clean clothes just tossed on the floor between our dressers. It gets bigger and bigger until it makes me stabby and I have to "nag" him to make him pick it up. Just put the clothes where they belong!!!!! And I feel you on the dirty clothes. We keep our hamper in the closet and most of the dirty clothes end up on the closet floor. WTF???
DHs work week is Sun-Wed; he travels, so he leaves Sat afternoon/evening. Just got a text from him that they aren't going to finish up what needs to be done today & he'll have to work OT tomorrow. UGH! So we'll basically see him Friday & half the day Sat. I pretty much just told him it almost wasn't worth him coming home for that short period of time!
Oh and of course my BIL (his brother works with him) is so far ahead in the work crew that he'll be home tonight. P!sses me off!!