If you delivered a preemie for your first pregnancy, did you deliver a preemie for your second?
My son was born at 35 weeks, small but perfect, with no NICU stay. My concern is this, Did I just get lucky the first time, and what are the odds of me having a preemie with real problems next time?
I know there are no guarentees in life, and I'm not asking for a crystal ball prediction, just wondering what your experiences were.
Re: For those of you that have 2 or more...
This...if you had your first b/c of pre-eclampsia, there's a good shot you'll have it again, and possibly sooner. However, if you had your first b/c your water broke (pPROM), your risk of having another preemie isn't likely to be too much higher than if you'd delivered your first at term.
My first baby we lost at 7 weeks.
My 2nd was born at 35 weeks due to IUGR and cord restriction.
When we want to TTC again the doctor wants me on baby aspirin and possibly progesterone. She told us that we shouldn't expect more m/c or preemies, but to prepare ourselves because our chances were higher.
Thank you everyone, sorry it's taken me so long to get back.
My DS was born early due to PRE-E and extreme stress (work FMLA violations related). I wouldn't have any stress related work this time, but I'm worried about the pre-e. I'm the first woman in the last 3 generations on my dads side to deliver naturally, since genetically we are all under 5 feet with small hips that tend to refuse to widen during pregnancy.
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Thank you everyone, sorry it's taken me so long to get back.
My DS was born early due to PRE-E and extreme stress (work FMLA violations related). I wouldn't have any stress related work this time, but I'm worried about the pre-e. I'm the first woman in the last 3 generations on my dads side to deliver naturally, since genetically we are all under 5 feet with small hips that tend to refuse to widen during pregnancy.
I guess I'm just really worried that I got lucky the first time. I know lots of 35 weekers that had NICU stays, and my son didn't even had jaundice. I guess the upside is I'd now be considered "high risk" so they would monitor me much closer than last time.