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wdyt re laboring at home?

I live in a smallish town, where there is only one hospital. I love the ob practice I am using and they are very supportive of me vbacing. There are 3 doctors in the practice. I have met with each one and they have each reviewed my operative report with me, talked about the circumstances surrounding the c/s and given the thumbs up for a vbac. I'm very confident in every dr in the practice and feel no matter who is on call when I go in to labor, they will be nothing but supportive. However, I have been warned by each dr of the restrictions placed on vbacs, by the hospital. Appartently, the hospital has a "de facto ban," in place. They will allow vbacs if the ob oks it but place a lot of restrictions as far as monitoring, etc. I would like to try to go med free and really don't want to be stuck on my back, in bed. I live less than 5 minutes from the hospital and am thinking when the time comes it may be best just to stay home as long as possible. I know the chances of uterine rupture are very small but I want to make sure that I am not being irresponsible in staying home to labor. When I was induced, with DD, I did get to 10cm dialated and I'm pretty confident in my ability to determine when labor has progressed to the point where I would need to get to the hospital. However, the small risk of uterine rupture is making me rethink this (not the whole vbac, just the laboring at home part). WDYT? I know there are some people on this board who are far more educated on the topic than I am and I'm hoping to hear what some have to say. TIA.
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Re: wdyt re laboring at home?

  • I had a VBAC last month and it was definitely my plan to labor at home for as long as possible. When I asked others- how will I know when to go to the hospital? They told me, "you'll just know" and it was true. I knew my labor was progressing quickly and I just "felt" when it was time to go.

    As far as being concerned about the risk of uterine rupture, I was told numerous times in my ICAN meetings, when a mother is unmedicated, she will know long before a uterine rupture occurs. (And, then others say there truly is no way to predict if it will occur). It's natural to be concerned because there is so much fear mongering about it, but it truly is a very small chance.

     It's awesome all 3 of your providers are supportive. But with the hospital policies, you are smart to labor at home for as long as possible.

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  • After my SIL's experience VBACing twins Monday, I'm glad to hear they gave you aheads up about potential hospital issues...she didn't get the same.  She got to the hospital and even though her provider was 100% supportive, since he wasn't in the building, they were waiting there ready to cut her.  It went as far as calling their attorneys trying to force her to be sectioned!  She was delayed 90 minutes in the ER while everyone tried to force her to consent to a section. 

    Take your providers' input to heart, and definitely labor at home as long as you can.  AND, take at least one person with you that you know can speak up and handle absolutely EVERYTHING for you while you concentrate on your labor!

     

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    After my SIL's experience VBACing twins Monday, I'm glad to hear they gave you aheads up about potential hospital issues...she didn't get the same.  She got to the hospital and even though her provider was 100% supportive, since he wasn't in the building, they were waiting there ready to cut her.  It went as far as calling their attorneys trying to force her to be sectioned!  She was delayed 90 minutes in the ER while everyone tried to force her to consent to a section. 

    Take your providers' input to heart, and definitely labor at home as long as you can.  AND, take at least one person with you that you know can speak up and handle absolutely EVERYTHING for you while you concentrate on your labor!

     

    Good Lord, that is TERRIBLE! But yay for your sister for standing up for herself. I am thankful to have my DH 100% in my corner on this one. Admitedly, I can be kinda a pushover but he is absolutely not. I know he will help me stay strong and not take any crap.
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  • I have to say that going to the hospital too early is one of my regrets. I had a successful vbac, but I think it would have gone more smoothly and perhaps a little faster if I had waited. But DH was nervous and my mom was staying with us and she was practically pushing us out the door and I just went along with it. I think a doula would have been a good choice for me and maybe for you as well. Someone who is experienced with birth, will remain level headed and logical, who knows the signs of UR, who can help you with the decision of when to go in.
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  • I also plan to labor at home.  I would think if there was a concern about not being monitored during early labor, that your Doctors would not be encouraging it.  I agree with pp, a doula would be a good idea.
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  • imagechiromommyMichelle:

    After my SIL's experience VBACing twins Monday, I'm glad to hear they gave you aheads up about potential hospital issues...she didn't get the same.  She got to the hospital and even though her provider was 100% supportive, since he wasn't in the building, they were waiting there ready to cut her.  It went as far as calling their attorneys trying to force her to be sectioned!  She was delayed 90 minutes in the ER while everyone tried to force her to consent to a section. 

     

    Holy crap. 

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  • imagechiromommyMichelle:

    After my SIL's experience VBACing twins Monday, I'm glad to hear they gave you aheads up about potential hospital issues...she didn't get the same.  She got to the hospital and even though her provider was 100% supportive, since he wasn't in the building, they were waiting there ready to cut her.  It went as far as calling their attorneys trying to force her to be sectioned!  She was delayed 90 minutes in the ER while everyone tried to force her to consent to a section. 


    OMFG this makes me angry.  I want to hear more about this.  How did she get her VBAC in the end?  Did the hospital finally agree or did she just give birth before they could do anything?

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    imagechiromommyMichelle:

    After my SIL's experience VBACing twins Monday, I'm glad to hear they gave you aheads up about potential hospital issues...she didn't get the same.  She got to the hospital and even though her provider was 100% supportive, since he wasn't in the building, they were waiting there ready to cut her.  It went as far as calling their attorneys trying to force her to be sectioned!  She was delayed 90 minutes in the ER while everyone tried to force her to consent to a section. 


    OMFG this makes me angry.  I want to hear more about this.  How did she get her VBAC in the end?  Did the hospital finally agree or did she just give birth before they could do anything?

     

    I was SO proud of her....she refused all medical treatment (wouldn't even let them take a BP!) until they reached her OB.  The hospital has a strict policy on no multiple VBACs, but her OB has been around forever, doesn't mind a little excitement in the last ten minutes and isn't afraid of getting sued!  (words straight out of our Pedi's mouth).

    Her OB was actually on vacation last week, but he attends ALL VBAC deliveries as long as he's in town, vacation and call rotation be damned, because no other drs in his office attend them. 

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    imageiris427:
    imagechiromommyMichelle:

    After my SIL's experience VBACing twins Monday, I'm glad to hear they gave you aheads up about potential hospital issues...she didn't get the same.  She got to the hospital and even though her provider was 100% supportive, since he wasn't in the building, they were waiting there ready to cut her.  It went as far as calling their attorneys trying to force her to be sectioned!  She was delayed 90 minutes in the ER while everyone tried to force her to consent to a section. 


    OMFG this makes me angry.  I want to hear more about this.  How did she get her VBAC in the end?  Did the hospital finally agree or did she just give birth before they could do anything?

     

    I was SO proud of her....she refused all medical treatment (wouldn't even let them take a BP!) until they reached her OB.  The hospital has a strict policy on no multiple VBACs, but her OB has been around forever, doesn't mind a little excitement in the last ten minutes and isn't afraid of getting sued!  (words straight out of our Pedi's mouth).

    Her OB was actually on vacation last week, but he attends ALL VBAC deliveries as long as he's in town, vacation and call rotation be damned, because no other drs in his office attend them. 

    Tell your friend to come over here and post her birth story!  And what an awesome OB.   

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    My Ob told me to labor at home as long as I could (he said 3-4 minute contrax...we're 25 minutes from the hospital). I did and arrived at the hosp at 6 cm. In your case, I'd do it...you could get there under five if needed
    "Hello, babies. Welcome to Earth. It's hot in the summer and cold in the winter. It's round and wet and crowded. At the outside, babies, you've got about a hundred years here. There's only one rule that I know of, babies. God damn it, you've got to be kind." - Kurt Vonnegut
  • erbearerbear member
    My Ob told me to labor at home as long as I could (he said 3-4 minute contrax...we're 25 minutes from the hospital). I did and arrived at the hosp at 6 cm. In your case, I'd do it...you could get there under five if needed
    "Hello, babies. Welcome to Earth. It's hot in the summer and cold in the winter. It's round and wet and crowded. At the outside, babies, you've got about a hundred years here. There's only one rule that I know of, babies. God damn it, you've got to be kind." - Kurt Vonnegut
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