Pregnant after IF

Our girls have arrived!

A and K arrived on July 20th at 10:20pm and 10:26pm via a med-free vaginal delivery (other than pitocin for the induction)!  I had talked with my OB about "winging it" pain control-wise from the start and she was completely supportive of it.  I left the option on the table, but the topic never came up once labor started and by the time I thought I just couldn't do it anymore, I was pushing :) 

After 3 weeks of hospital bedrest because of advanced dilation (5cm) and signs of developing pre-e, I was induced at 3pm on Wednesday.  It took a couple of hours of pitocin for me to dilate to 6cm.  At around 730, my OB came in and broke baby A's water and told me to expect the contractions to become much stronger.  In the next hour I went from talking and laughing through my contractions to laying in the fetal position trying to rip the bedrails off the bed. 

By 930 I was in the OR dilated to 10cm and ready to push.  I pushed for close to an hour for baby A.  She weighed in at 6#, 7oz and 18 inches long.  With my next contraction, the dr. broke Baby B's water.  Baby B came flying out with the next contraction and weighed 5#, 6oz, and 17 inches long.  Both babies had their cords around their necks, but they were able to take care of it quickly. 

 Through the entire labor and delivery, I barely made a sound other than asking for water.  Everybody kept commenting on how quiet I was, but all I was doing was trying to keep myself calm and tell myself I had made it that far already and I could finish the job! 

Unfortunately, Baby A caused 3 major tears (one very deep that almost reached my cervix).  It took them close to 2 hours to repair the damage, and I will honestly say that the repair was WAY worse than the labor and delivery combined.  At this point, my OB basically insisted on pain meds, and I didn't argue. 

Even with the horrendous tearing, it was absolutely the most incredible experience of my life.  My recovery is going well.  A little slow because of blood loss and all of this lovely repair work I've had done, but my two beautiful girls are a wonderful distraction!  They're breastfeeding well and have had no complications, so I'm one happy mom!  We're headed home either tonight or tomorrow!

Our IVF miracles arrived on 7/20/11 at 37 weeks after 3 weeks of hospital bedrest! Lilypie Second Birthday tickers "Stubbornly persist, and you will find that the limits of your stubbornness go well beyond the stubbornness of your limits." ~Robert Brault

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  • Congratulations!!! Wow, you are one strong momma! And those are such awesome weights! Great job!! I'm so glad you and the girls are doing so well, and I hope that your recovery is quick. Congrats again!
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  • Yikes about the tearing but so happy to hear the girls are here happy and healthy! Congrats on going med free!!
    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • yay! congrats mama!!! 
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  • wow! What awesome weights for your girls :) And med free? How amazing!! Congrats!
    TTC since 8/09
    DX: PCO, ENDO, High NK, MTHFR
    8/10 = Lap to remove Endo

    2 Femara TI, 3 Follistim IUI = BFN & 1 c/p
    IVF #1 - BFP - boy/girl Twins!

    Ben and Reese born at 34w2d!
  • Congrats!!  What an incredible delivery you had.  You give me hope.
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  • Med free with twins? You are my hero! Sorry about the tearing:( It does sound like an awesome experience though, and the girls have really good stats. Hope you feel better soon!
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  • Holy cow.  Mother of the year award!!!!  I'm totally impressed that you delivered med-free twins.

    Congratulations on your sweet babies!!!!!!

  • Congrats on a successful delivery. The tear sounds awful. You are a trooper.
    Beautiful Miracle Baby lost at 21 weeks due to pre-term labor and incompetent cervix. FET#1 BFN, FET#2 BFP, early loss. FET#3 BFN. IVF#2 BFFN. FET #4 BFP after removing bilateral hydrosalpinx and 3 months of lupron depot. Sticky Bun is here!! Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Congrats!!!!!!  I'm so glad to hear the girls are doing well and wow, those are great twin birth weights!!  Sorry to hear about the awful tearing and blood loss.  I hope your recovery goes well.
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  • Congrats!  Although I have obviously not been through a delivery, any woman who can go w/o meds is my hero & you did it with twins!! 

    "When the world says, 'Give up,' Hope whispers, 'Try one more time.'" -Anonymous

  • Congrats! Those are some impressive weights! Sorry about your tearing, but that is wonderful that you all get to go home soon.
    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

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  • Congrats on your baby girls! :)  You are such a strong momma, I am so proud of you!
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  • WOW! You are one brave and strong woman! Congratulations!!! Glad everyone is doing well.
    TTC since November 2009. DH diagnosed with sperm antibodies. IUI #1 = BFN IUI #2 = BFN On the road to IVF.... Egg Retrieval Jan 21, 2011 16 eggs retrieved Egg transfer Jan 26, 2011 Only 2 viable eggs transferred. 1 IVF, 1 ICSI IVF #1 = BFP :-) 10/3/11 No heart beat at 38 weeks: Our baby Jack became an angel 12/14/11 = natural BFP Rainbow baby Samantha Jacklyn born8/8/12. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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    congrats and way to go!! 
    Dx Anovulatory PCOS Clomid,Ovidrel,TI=BFN IUI#1-#3 Femara,Ovidrel=BFN IUI#4-Gonal F,Ovidrel=BFN IUI#5-Gonal F,Ovidrel= BFP!! Beta #1 11dpIUI=34, Beta #2=131,first u/s 3/14=1 perfect bug with a heartbeat! Anderson Phillip, Born 11/2/11 7lbs 10oz 21in. Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Congrats mama! Those are some nice size babies, great job!! Enjoy every second with your girls!
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  • congratulations! so amazing that you were able to get them to term while dealing with PTL issues.

    i hope you recover quickly!

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  • Congratulations on your sweet little girls! What a birth story! You're one tough momma!
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  • Congratulations!! Hope the recovery continues to go well...
  • Wow E, you rock!

    So happy that your girls are finally here!!!!  Congrats sweetie!!!

    TTC #1 Since 11/08 - Dx: MFI & PCOS
    7 IUIs = All BFNs
    2011: March IVF #1.2 = e/p @ 6w: May IVF #2 = BFN: July sFET #1 = BFN

    2012: Jan We're Certified FC/A Parents
    May IVF #3 = c/p
    June-Nov Foster Mommy to M (Toddler)
    July FET #2 = BFN
    Aug FET #3 = BFN
    Sept-Nov Foster Mommy to Baby Bella (Newborn)
    Nov HSG/Sono = Clear!
    Dec FET #4 = BFN

    2013: Feb FET #5 = m/c @ 6.5w
    May-July Foster Mom to H (8 yr old girl)
    June/July/Aug IVF #4 = Freeze All
    July = Unofficially Adopting T (10 yr old boy)
    Sept FET #6 = TBD
    **PAIF/SAIF Welcome**
  • Congrats!  I am so impressed that you had twins med free, you are a rock star!!!  Sorry to hear about your tearing and I hope you are all healed soon.
    TTC since 8/2004
    Me - DX Hashimoto's Disease, Hypothyroid, Rheumatoid Arthritis
    DH - DX Azoospermia - Sertoli Cell Syndrome
    DS-IUI #1-4 BFN IVF #1 - BFP! It's a boy!!!
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