March 2012 Moms

Update; Spotting at 4w5d (sad, long)

Well ladies, it's time for me to say goodbye.  I went to see my doctor with light spotting and some very dull cramping.  While my cervix looked great, when they did an ultrasound, they found that our baby was developing in my right fallopian tube.  I was immediately rushed over to the hospital (which sucked because I was by myself) to assess whether I needed surgery.  Luckily it was caught early enough so they were able to administer medication to disolve the tissue and hopefully I won't need surgery, or lose my tube.  I am still in the hospital but will probably get to go home tomorrow.  I felt stupid for calling the doctor originally because the spotting was so light.  My doctor told be to never feel stupid and that they are there to help.  So ladies, please call your doc if you feel out of the ordinary.  It could have been so much worse if they hadnt't caught it early.

DH and I are crushed but are hopeful for the future.  We didn't know if we would be able to get pregnant on our own because of his morphology issues but it seems that it is possible. 

This group of March mommies is awesome and I wish you all the best.  I will keep lurking because your journey will give me comfort and hope.  Thank you for all of your thoughts and kind words.

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Re: Update; Spotting at 4w5d (sad, long)

  • *Big hugs* I'm so sorry. I'm also very thankful that you called your doctor. I hope you have a speedy recovery and lots of luck in the future.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. I am sending you hugs and thoughts and prayers for peace and healing.
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  • Love to you in your loss. All the best for you! *hugs*
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  • (((hugs))) i'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • NimakNimak member
    I am so sorry for your loss, t&ps      ::hugs::
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  • My heart really goes out to you, I worry about losing the baby just about every day even though I know it's something I wouldn't have any control over and worrying does nothing to help. You're post was brave and helpful. Thank you for sharing with the rest of us, my doctor said if a miscarriage was to happen couples who try again have a great chance of success. I wish you lots of healthy pregnancy luck for the future...
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  • tdmd09tdmd09 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss, but thankful you caught this in time to hopefully prevent losing your tube. Take care of yourself. ((hugs))
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  • I am so so sorry for your loss
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • Sending a hug.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.  
  • lycihlycih member
    I'm so sorry to hear this.  But I am glad that you called your doctor early and they were able to save your tube.  T+P for you and your husband.


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  • I'm so sorry for your loss!  I'm glad you got to the doctor in time to save your tube and avoid surgery! 
    Lots of love to my BFPB, Squishy622 <3

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  • I'm so sorry to hear that, but glad you went in when you did.  Best of luck in the future as you begin to heal.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  Glad that you trusted your instincts and went in to the doctor.  Good luck to you!
  • I'm sorry for your loss and wishing you a speedy recovery!
  • :-(  I'm so sorry for your loss.  Sending lots of hugs and T&P to you and your DH!!
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss!  :/

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  • I am so sorry you are going through this.  A friend of mine had a similar experience but the bleeding was much worse.  She said it was hard but made it through ok.  She now has to healthy, rambunctious boys.

    Good luck and I hope you get your sticky baby soon! 

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  • I am so sorry for your loss, but thank goodness you didn't lose a tube. I hope you are on the birth month boards again soon.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss but I am glad that they caught it early for your health. Good luck to you!
    Me: 33, Hypothalamic Amenorrhea, DOR (AMH .35), DH: 38, Borderline low morph
    5/09- Off BCP, 5/09-9/09- No period, 9/09-9/10- Lots of Tests & accupuncture
    10/10 and 11/10- 2 rounds of Menopur + TI= BFNS
    12/10-IUI #1 Menopur = BFN
    1/11- IUI #2 Menopur = BFP, 2/11 missed mc at 9 weeks, D&C
    5/11- Operative Hysteroscopy to remove uterine septum
    6/11- IUI #3 Menopur = BFP, 8/11 missed mc at 11 weeks, D&C
    1/12- Lap and Operative Hysteroscopy to remove uterine septum (again) & scar tissue
    2/12- Stint Removal, 3/12 repeat SHG and HSG- showed scar tissue blocking right tube
    4/12- Operative hysteroscopy (again), RE said he can now see right tube (yay!)
    5/12- Stint removal, 6/12 repeat SHG and HSG-both tubes are open!
    8/12- IUI #4 Bravelle = BFN
    9/12-IUI #5 Bravelle = BFN
    1/13- IVF #1, micro-flare protocol, 7R, 6F, 5dt of 2 AA embryos, 1 to freeze = BFP
    Beta #1: 176, Beta #2: 422, EDD 10/8/13- it's TWINS!
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  • I am really sorry that you had to go through this.  I am glad that they found it early enough to save your tube.  Best of luck and speedy recovery!
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  • I'm so sorry. I'm glad it was caught early. Good luck with everything in the future. ((hugs))
  • I am so sorry!  My T&P are with you both.  Ectopics are very hard, but you are very lucky that they caught it in time (I waited to call because I didn't think anything was wrong and mine ruptured and I lost my left tube...).

    Keep being hopeful and the next time you get BFP, they will monitor you like crazy to make sure the baby is in the right home!  Best of luck to you both when you begin trying again! 

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  • *HUGS*  So sorry, I hope the meds work and you can keep both tubes intact!  Glad you caught it early, ecotopic pgs can be pretty nasty.  Hang in there, hope you're on a BMB again soon!
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  Take care of yourself as you recover physically and emotionally.  When you are ready, the ladies on the miscarriage and TTCAL boards were fantastic in helping me through my journey.
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