I wrote this morning that its my birthday and i was throwing a hissy fit because my carpis don't fit. Well I got a pair on (thanks to the hair tie trick). We went to our 9:30 scan and they found hydrops. The babys heart was barely beating.
They sent us to the specialist for a second opinion and she confirmed its severe fully body hydrops with a large cystic hygroma.
Our last baby - a girl- whom we lost in March had the same thing. We went through tons of genetic testing and were told it was a 1 in 10,000 chance it would happen again. All genetic testign pointed to a random thing. A fluke if you will.
I guess not. I have a D&C scheduled for 3:15pm and we're heart broken.
Happy birthday to me I suppose.
Re: Who cares about my pants now
BFP#3 9-4-13 Benjamin Lee born 4-28-14
Oh, I am so, so sorry for you & your husband. I wish there was something I could do or say to ease your pain.
DH became a double above knee amputee with traumatic brain injury (TBI) - July 2009
TTC - August 2009 DX: Severe MFI & TF due to TBI
DH SA 0 count, started clomid therapy - November 2010
DH SA 0 count, increased clomid dosage - January 2011
DH SA 75 million with 60% motility!! - May 2011
IVF with ICSI ONLY OPTION - May 2011
3dt of 2 Grade A 8&7 cell embryos May 19, 2011
+HPT May 30 2011 -- Memorial Day!
Beta #1 = 34 Beta #2 = 101.8 Beta #3 = 603!
Expecting beautiful Eden Grace February 7, 2012!
I don't believe that God ever tells us "no". he has three options. Yes, not right now, or I have something better in mind. We just have to wait & see.
My Colton...Growing up so fast!
And Coralee, his baby sister...On the way!
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"When the world says, 'Give up,' Hope whispers, 'Try one more time.'" -Anonymous
♥ Married since June 2009 ♥
TW: Living children & Losses:
Pregnant after 4 losses via IVF/FET with daughter "Gamma" (EDD Oct 2, 2019)
Missed m/c 10/25/10 @ 11.5 weeks
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Missed MC 11/17/10 Our little miracle born 1/27/12 Natural MC 7/19/12 Missed MC 1/22/13 Our family is complete DD 12/27/13
Abnormal ANA, PAI-1 4G/4G homozygous
You've heard what I've done, not what I've been through.
If you were in my shoes, you'd fall the first step."
I am so sorry for your loss.
TTC since 3-2008: v/c repair 2009; BFP: 7-2010, m/c 8-2010, c/p 4-2011, BFP: 6-2011 EDD: 2-12-2012?
"Lovebugs2012"
Today I am pregnant & I love my baby!
You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face. -Eleanor Roosevelt
After 1 year of TTC#2 BFP May 2011 m/c #3 4w2d. Off to RE.
Round 1: Femara + Ovidrel +TI = BFP! EDD 2/20/12
2IF does not always equal 3IF...Surprise!