I don't feel like I have the leg thing right. I feel like I'm going to break his feet or something, and I'm not sure if their legs should be crossed at the ankle or not. I mean, it doesn't seem right to me that they would "sit" on their feet. What am I doing wrong?
Re: Help me with a newborn hold (T2T) (in a RS or wrap)
In a ring sling I did feet out. See?
It was LOs favorite for a long time. She hated feet in.
You're right. He shouldn't be sitting on this feet. You can scrunch/fold/froggy your newborn's legs. Just put his feet up in front of his stomach/chest.
There are two good pictures here: https://zolowear.com/WearingKangaroo.aspx I'm not suggesting that you have to use the kangaroo position. It's just that your baby can face you and have his feet crossed. He spent a lot of time like that in utero. He'll let you know when he's sick of it and wants to be "legs out."
ETA: These pictures don't t show HOW the LOs feet are inside the ring sling. They just help show that legs-in is legit: https://site.peppermint.com/instructions/kangaroocare_ringsling.pdf