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October 2011 Moms
wilsontl19191
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Anyone else "miss" their DH
wilsontl19191
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I see my honey everyday, but I miss being close to him. I miss snuggling with him at night in bed (the snoogle gets in the way), I miss certain types of sex, I miss make out sessions and I miss relaxing with him without feeling tired or having a serious backache. I just "miss" him. Does that make sense?
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Re: Anyone else "miss" their DH
I usually cuddle my husband until he falls asleep... then I whip out the snoogle... at first he didn't like my "new boyfriend" as he called it, but just this morning he said "I like the snoogle!" because he props himself up on it too... and doesn't smoosh me, like he used to.
We still do the makeout sessions... so nice
I hate that I have to grunt everytime I try to move closer to him!! Whether it be on the couch or in bed... how HOT is a grunting woman! haha
Yeah, in a way. Mine seems sweeter these days telling me he loves me more often and rubbing my belly. But then, it's different b/c he's not really putting the moves on me anymore. I don't even really want him to b/c I just feel so big and uncomfortable, but I at least miss him trying to have sex with me.
Yes!! Although i believe its because my husband is not a pregnant lady lover.
A) he works from 4am till 8pm and gets home at 10pm to go straight to bed so I really only see him on the weekends.
c)we sleep in opposite directions him facing the window and me facing the door. I cannot seem to fall asleep on my right side.
d) I havent had a backrub IN Forever
My DH admitted to me yesterday that he uses it when he naps after work. Really? LOL He went out a bought a snoogle cover for it too! What's with that? hahaha
I find I can't breathe during the make out sessions. Not sure why!
MH seems like he's trying to "Get it all in"... as in golfing and doing guy things. So I resent him for doing things that I can't do. We've discussed it and I try to deal with it. But I feel really "left out" even though I don't golf. LOL
Combine that with the fact that he is a teacher and he gets to have an all out relaxing summer before baby comes. I wish.
I was just thinking about this today...sex is down right painful when we tried it at 18 weeks so for the last 10...there has been none (poor DH) and thus the intimacy is out the window it seems.
I also miss having him give me "the look" where you know he's attracted to you and thinks hes got the hottest wife ever--I know he loves me but I miss seeing him be attracted to me if that makes sense.
Yes, this. My DH is constantly asking if I'm okay when I'm turning over or getting in or out of bed. I just can't help it!
LOL!!
Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge Him,and He shall direct your paths.
Proverbs 3:5-6
Since I've been pregnant my libido has risen while my DH has fallen. I constantly want to just eat him up LOL! But he isn't into having sex with me while I have LO in my belly. He says I look beautiful and sex isn't everything but my hormones are going crazy! I'm enjoying being pregnant and feel truly blessed but I constantly feel like I have to take a cold shower when I am around my DH LOL! I wish there was a switch that I could use to make him less attractive while I am pregnant......