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Got the pathology report from my (repeat) D&C...

It was a boy.  : (

 

I didn't know they were going to be mailing me the report... I would have preferred a phone call that said "there was 2 sets of maternal chromosomes (triploidy), and we believe we know the sex of the baby... would you like to know?"

But, life is as it is, and now I know. I lost a son.  

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BFP 8/1/10, missed m/c, D&C 9/15/10.
BFP 1/8/11, chemical pregnancy.
BFP 3/4/11, measured behind all along, no more HB 4/18/11. D&C 4/29/11. HCG didn't drop, Repeat D&C 6/17/11; confirmed molar pregnancy 6/23/11.
Forced break, including two Hysteroscopies in October to remove retained tissue.
BFP 12/29/11! Betas @ 10 dpo = 85, 14 dpo= 498, 22 dpo = 7242
Heard HB 1/24/12. 144 bpm!

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Re: Got the pathology report from my (repeat) D&C...

  • I'm so sorry. What a blow.
    Conceived DD after 15 cycles--- TTC #2 since 11/10---Me- Poor egg quality and supply---DH- Poor count and motility---2 rounds 75IU Follistim/IUI-BFN---5/12 150IU Follistim/IUI-Over-produced! Converted to IVF! 0 fertilized:( Rescue ICSI performed. 2 embryos transfered-BFN

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  • Oh Kelli...I am so so so sorry.  I would have prefered a phone call too. 
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  • Thanks guys. It was a touch easier when I just lost a baby. But to be able to say boy.... or son.... makes it too realistic.  
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    Trying for #2 since July 2010
    BFP 8/1/10, missed m/c, D&C 9/15/10.
    BFP 1/8/11, chemical pregnancy.
    BFP 3/4/11, measured behind all along, no more HB 4/18/11. D&C 4/29/11. HCG didn't drop, Repeat D&C 6/17/11; confirmed molar pregnancy 6/23/11.
    Forced break, including two Hysteroscopies in October to remove retained tissue.
    BFP 12/29/11! Betas @ 10 dpo = 85, 14 dpo= 498, 22 dpo = 7242
    Heard HB 1/24/12. 144 bpm!

    Luca Rose born 9/9/12! More than worth the wait!
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  • I'm so sorry :( I'm sure it does make it more realistic...
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    DD conceived with no issues, but born at 33 weeks due to PPROM
    loss #1-06/2010 loss #2-2/2011 loss #3-5/2011
    07/2011 dx with a Balanced Translocation
    9/2011-decided on domestic infant adoption 10/2011-signed with an agency and getting ready for homestudy :)
    12-2012-after being with our agency over a year and only shown to EM once we decided to talk with RE about DEIVF. Thru a crazy sequence of events we decided to go for it and we picked a donor MUCH quicker than anticipated
    1/13/2013-started lupron with anticipated transfer in mid Feb.
    ER 2/15 resulted in 15 eggs/10M/6F with ICSI.
    2/18 transferred 1-8cell and 1-9cell embie. Snuggle in little embies.
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  • I'm so sorry Kelli. I know when I lost a baby and a twin I could not have taken knowing the sex. That makes it much much too real. I mean it's devastating already. I can't imagine. I'm really sorry.
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    I'm so sorry Kelli. I know when I lost a baby and a twin I could not have taken knowing the sex. That makes it much much too real. I mean it's devastating already. I can't imagine. I'm really sorry.
    Thanks pharmacygirl. You know I'm a pharmacy girl too, right? : )

    I just fear... what if we never get to have a son, and now we will know that we *did* have one, and lost him? I would 100% be thrilled with any healthy baby that I may be blessed with, and I would LOVE for DD to have a sister, but I would also love for her to have a brother, and I would love to mother a son. Now, if that doesn't happen for us, it just carries more pain knowing that we had one that couldn't stay with us.

    I hope all is going well for you. Thanks for stopping in and sharing your support. It means a lot (same to everyone else too).  

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    Trying for #2 since July 2010
    BFP 8/1/10, missed m/c, D&C 9/15/10.
    BFP 1/8/11, chemical pregnancy.
    BFP 3/4/11, measured behind all along, no more HB 4/18/11. D&C 4/29/11. HCG didn't drop, Repeat D&C 6/17/11; confirmed molar pregnancy 6/23/11.
    Forced break, including two Hysteroscopies in October to remove retained tissue.
    BFP 12/29/11! Betas @ 10 dpo = 85, 14 dpo= 498, 22 dpo = 7242
    Heard HB 1/24/12. 144 bpm!

    Luca Rose born 9/9/12! More than worth the wait!
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  • I am so sorry for your loss :(
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  • I am so sorry, that would have been so hard.
    DD born 2007, lots of ttc #2 without success, now one & done.
  • I'm so sorry, that sounds so hard.  It definitely makes it all more "real" and I'm sure triggered your emotions all over again.  I'm sorry for your loss.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  It must have been so difficult to see that. A call would have been better, I agree.
    Jen Mom to Benjamin, born 9/28/06 TTC # 2 since 7/2010 Unexplained IF 1st round of clomid April 2011 BFN 2nd round of clomid May 2011 BFN 1st round of femara June 2011 BFN 2nd round of femara with ovidrel and IUI #1 July 2011 BFN 3rd round of femara with ovidrel and IUI #2 August 2011 BFN 4th round (ahhhhh!!!!) of femara with ovidrel and IUI #3 converted to TI September 2011 ???
  • I'm so sorry...  
    m/c - Dec 2005, DS - March 27, 2007, m/c - Oct 2009, DD - Feb 20, 2012

    Proud mother of two breech babies:)

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