Time keeps moving on...but I am stuck in this moment.

lhakers · July 2011

Writing and sharing this with you guys is just a small comfort...

https://sofiahartlove.blogspot.com/

BettyBookworm · July 2011

I am very sorry for your loss.

That being said, its generally frowned upon (and against the terms of service) to solicit your blog like this in a post. Put it in your signature etc. is fine, but you might get reported this way.

ETA: I hope I didn't come off like an ass*. I really didn't mean to, and I am very sorry that you have suffered this way. Have you sought out the pg loss boards? We are very lovely, supportive women here on 2nd Tri, but it might be painful for you to hang out here. If you choose to stick around we don't have any issues (that I know of) but I am not sure how much it would help you. My condolences.

kerryholmes · July 2011

My heart aches for you! I wish I could just hold you and hug you. I am so sorry for your incredible loss

lhakers · July 2011

BettyBookworm:
I am very sorry for your loss.
That being said, its generally frowned upon (and against the terms of service) to solicit your blog like this in a post. Put it in your signature etc. is fine, but you might get reported this way.
ETA: I hope I didn't come off like an ass*. I really didn't mean to, and I am very sorry that you have suffered this way. Have you sought out the pg loss boards? We are very lovely, supportive women here on 2nd Tri, but it might be painful for you to hang out here. If you choose to stick around we don't have any issues (that I know of) but I am not sure how much it would help you. My condolences.

I was not aware of that. Thanks.

m231 · July 2011

I'm so very sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the pain you are feeling. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Waiting4myJulyBaby · July 2011

I can't begin to imagine how you feel, so sorry for your loss

lhakers · July 2011

BettyBookworm:
I am very sorry for your loss.
That being said, its generally frowned upon (and against the terms of service) to solicit your blog like this in a post. Put it in your signature etc. is fine, but you might get reported this way.
ETA: I hope I didn't come off like an ass*. I really didn't mean to, and I am very sorry that you have suffered this way. Have you sought out the pg loss boards? We are very lovely, supportive women here on 2nd Tri, but it might be painful for you to hang out here. If you choose to stick around we don't have any issues (that I know of) but I am not sure how much it would help you. My condolences.

Yes, I have been on the pg loss boards. It is comforting here and I am still thankful everyone can still experience how wonderful it is to be pregnant. It helps. Thank you for your concern.

Frostycake2011 · July 2011

My heart breaks for you. I cannot help but read your touching story and every day hope you gain the strength to move forward and see the sun through all the ugly. May you be surrounded by all the friends and family that love you so dearly. I will cherish every moment of my pregnancy in hopes that i will become the strong and loving mother you are...You are truly a soldier of life. You are in my thoughts, and have deeply touched my heart. I hope those who love you, hold you in there arms and remind you of all the wonderful things you have accomplished.

Time heals everything...even the darkest deepest wounds.

lhakers · July 2011

Frostycake2011:
My heart breaks for you. I cannot help but read your touching story and every day hope you gain the strength to move forward and see the sun through all the ugly. May you be surrounded by all the friends and family that love you so dearly. I will cherish every moment of my pregnancy in hopes that i will become the strong and loving mother you are...You are truly a soldier of life. You are in my thoughts, and have deeply touched my heart. I hope those who love you, hold you in there arms and remind you of all the wonderful things you have accomplished.
Time heals everything...even the darkest deepest wounds.

Thank you for this.

Snorkel30 · July 2011

BettyBookworm:
I am very sorry for your loss.
That being said, its generally frowned upon (and against the terms of service) to solicit your blog like this in a post. Put it in your signature etc. is

Jeez! that's a little harsh. How can you be that cold? The poor woman just went through the hardest thing ever, and this is what you focus on and have to say! Jeez, so harsh.

Snorkel30 · July 2011

I'm so sorry for your loss. Wish I could give you a hug

BettyBookworm · July 2011

Snorkel30:
BettyBookworm:

I am very sorry for your loss.

That being said, its generally frowned upon (and against the terms of service) to solicit your blog like this in a post. Put it in your signature etc. is

Jeez! that's a little harsh. How can you be that cold? The poor woman just went through the hardest thing ever, and this is what you focus on and have to say! Jeez, so harsh.

Snorkel,

Did you not see that I edited to add that I didn't mean to come off as an ass*? That I am sorry that she suffered her loss (very first thing that I said). I just didn't want her to get reported (or banned) as a spammer if she is legit. I believe she is and I didn't want her to get banned or reported. If you look she also thanked me for the advice, and I was concerned for her feelings (afraid that hanging out on a board of pg women might be painful for her).

I definitely wasn't *only* focusing on the blog advertisement. I ask you to please read the ENTIRE thing that I posted before you jump on me. I did edit because I didn't want to seem unfeeling. I certainly feel that she has been through a horrible ordeal & I'm very sorry for her loss.

lavieboheme73 · July 2011

Hey, let's not turn someone's post about her grief into a personal fight...the intent of the warning about being banned for soliciting a blog is not the issue here. Gut-wrenching hurt and loss is the issue.

I don't usually post here, but I wanted to say that your blog is beautifully written and moving. Your daughter was obviously very loved and special, and would be proud to see how strong you are and what a beautiful tribute to her you have written. I'm so sorry for your loss. God bless you.

BettyBookworm · July 2011

lavieboheme73:
Hey, let's not turn someone's post about her grief into a personal fight...the intent of the warning about being banned for soliciting a blog is not the issue here. Gut-wrenching hurt and loss is the issue.
I don't usually post here, but I wanted to say that your blog is beautifully written and moving. Your daughter was obviously very loved and special, and would be proud to see how strong you are and what a beautiful tribute to her you have written. I'm so sorry for your loss. God bless you.

I agree. I think her experience is very moving. Sophie & her mommy are in my prayers.

EveryNameIWantIsTaken · July 2011

My heart is breaking as I sit here reading your words. I cried this time, as I did when I read your original post concerning this, because I cannot imagine the immense pain that you are going through. I'm sure there are no words to make it better, but know that many people out there have you and your story in their minds and are all wishing that there had been a better ending for you and Sophia.

skleidon21 · July 2011

You poor thing.. I truly cant even imagine what you are going through. You can speak of your sweet little angel as offen as you want. Ill be following your blog also Embarrassed Sending lots of love & Prayers

tiffanyhodge · July 2011

Baby Sofia was so lucky to have a mother like you. I'm sure she is looking down from above, smiling, thinking what a courageous and loving person you are. If it comforts you, stay on here as long as you need to heal

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