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Crazy XMIL is exactly like SD

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I had a horrible phone conversation with her the other night.  I still haven't figured out why it was that she called.  Apparently she has pent up anger towards me...not sure why???

I just wrote a blog post about it but some of the amusing highlights (that I didn't get into in the blog) consisted of:

-her telling me that she should've been allowed in the room when I had DS and that I should've stopped IN THE MIDDLE OF PUSHING to invite her in the room

-she told me that I always run to "mommy and daddy" (which I do not) for money but then proceeded to tell me that she was paying SD's bills and paying for his rehab and she was "about ready to file bankruptcy she was so broke"

-she told me that I just rushed out to file for divorce and she couldn't understand why because she'd thought I said I didn't want to be a single mom.  I told her I didn't want to be a single mom, however, her son left me no choice.

-when I asked her what she wanted and if she wanted to try to establish a relationship with DS she said "well, I will just have to think about that, I just don't know I'm so angry about everything". What she's so angry about I'm not really sure.

-she kept screaming over and over again, "I guess I'm just a fvcking biitch, I guess I'm just an assshole grandma".  I said "well, at least we agree on something".  She just kept repeating that over and over again.  It was quite bizarre.

Basically I ended up telling her that she was so unintelligent that I couldn't hold a conversation with her, wished her a good night and hung up.  It did feel good to get a few things off my chest (in the brief moments that I actually got to speak).

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Re: Crazy XMIL is exactly like SD

  • PrincessFiona9PrincessFiona9 member
    What a psycho....you know where SD gets it!
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  • AmandaJordan1985AmandaJordan1985 member
    Wow she sounds BSC to say the least. I can't understand why she would contact you if she didn't want to establish a relationship with P. But, like you said, she's just as bad as SD so that explains it.
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  • okballet16okballet16 member

    Wow, she seems.. charming. Maybe she's on something too?

    If she has to think about having a relationship with your son because she is angry with you, then I wouldn't let her apart of his life whenever she does decide to come around. But that's just me.

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  • CPA04CPA04

    Funny how blinded people can be when their sons have caused their own destruction.  They look for someone else to blame because CLEARLY the well rounded men they raised aren't at fault for their problems. Confused

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  • achase123achase123
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    Wow, she seems.. charming. Maybe she's on something too?

    If she has to think about having a relationship with your son because she is angry with you, then I wouldn't let her apart of his life whenever she does decide to come around. But that's just me.

    Oh no, there will be no more contact with her.  None.  And she better not try to come near P.  I'm all through with her.

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  • PrettyInPearls23PrettyInPearls23 member
    That woman is all sorts of BSC!

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    Oh no, there will be no more contact with her.  None.  And she better not try to come near P.  I'm all through with her.

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  • hollinorhollinor member
    I learned dealing with my husband that the crazy comes from somewhere.  All I had to do was look at his family to see that.  When I met him, he hadn't talked to his mother for 5 years.  I couldn't understand why!  My mother and I had a rocky relationship when I was a teen, but when I had my daughter that completely changed.  I looked at her from a mother's eyes and saw her in a new light.  We were on the phone everyday.  When I finally met his mother, I saw the apple didn't fall far from the crazy tree.  She was doing drugs too.  Sad, sad, sad.  She was just as delusional and manic as he was.  I learned after a few years that his father beat on his mother and he learned all his "family values" growing up in that nuthouse.  The only sane one was his grandmother who is an absolute doll.  He ended up moving in with her when he was a teen, but the crazy had already been ingrained.
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