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One trip to crazytown please

Just when I think STBXH has lost all his marbles, he comes up with this:

As part of his visitation schedule, he would like SIX STRAIGHT WEEKS in the summer, and he would allow B to come home to see me halfway through for one weekend.

Umm...excuse me?  Does that sound ludacris to anyone else?  B is a BABY.  Next year, he will be a TODDLER.  HE IS NOT SEVEN.  HE IS NOT TWELVE.  We have a baby for goodness sakes!  You can't just throw a toddler into a different daycare for 6 weeks with people he doesn't know and think it won't affect him.  You can't just take a child away from the primary caregiver for 42 days.  And to think, it makes perfect sense in his convoluted head.  That's the scariest part.

Good grief....

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Re: One trip to crazytown please

  • My ex suggested that he take the boy twin and I take the girl twin...just so he wouldn't have to pay child support.  Nothing surprises me about selfish men anymore.
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  • imagehollinor:
    My ex suggested that he take the boy twin and I take the girl twin...just so he wouldn't have to pay child support.  Nothing surprises me about selfish men anymore.

    Mine wanted the "twin that looks like him". Which is hilarious, because he seems to think the blonde one looks like him, when the brunette is his mini-me.  

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  • Wow, twisted thinking for sure!

    XH told me the other day that, while he had lost three years of his life from his drug addiction, it "could've been worse" because he still has all of his teeth and still has his good looks.  Indifferent

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    Wow, twisted thinking for sure!

    XH told me the other day that, while he had lost three years of his life from his drug addiction, it "could've been worse" because he still has all of his teeth and still has his good looks.  Indifferent

    Maybe he should be a comedian in his new life....I find his comment laughable.

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  • Thank God our kids have us to balance out the lunacy. Yes
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    imagehollinor:
    My ex suggested that he take the boy twin and I take the girl twin...just so he wouldn't have to pay child support.  Nothing surprises me about selfish men anymore.

    Mine wanted the "twin that looks like him". Which is hilarious, because he seems to think the blonde one looks like him, when the brunette is his mini-me.  

    Ha! When he does prentend to care, everything is about the boy, because he looks just like him.  I'm like, you do remember Alexis, right?  Pffft!  But I have learned not to complain because at least I don't have to share them with him. Big Smile

  • Bwhaha...I know I shouldn't be laughing, but some of the stuff these men (and I use that term loosely) is pretty dang funny.

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  • MrsHKMrsHK member
    Make sure you protect yourself and have a good lawyer to get things lined up properly. Another poster on BF had a similar situation with her ex. She got custody and was able to return to her home country. The ex did get a similar extended visitation for their little baby. I think the baby was just over a year when it started. Broke my heart because it just doesn't seem right at this age. But she is doing well last I heard. (I'm not around much anymore). I thought she frequents over here sometimes, Tifanico.
    Proverbs 12:10 "A righteous man cares for the needs of his animals ChipMonkey 3/19/08 *** Turtle 1/26/10 *** CarBear 10/06/11
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