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• achase123

  July 2011

  Have you tried counseling?

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• blissfully_caffeinated

  July 2011

  achase123:

  Have you tried counseling?

  No and Dh is not really willing to go. He doesn't see the point. I've gotten him to "maybe" agree in the past but never to actually go. I even get 15 free visits per year but still a no go.
  

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• achase123

  July 2011

  blissfully_caffeinated:

  achase123:

  Have you tried counseling?

  No and Dh is not really willing to go. He doesn't see the point. I've gotten him to "maybe" agree in the past but never to actually go. I even get 15 free visits per year but still a no go.
  

  Sometimes when they're faced with no alternative but divorce it motivates them to get their asss to a counselor.  I never have understood the reluctance to see a counselor.  Might learn something about themselves they don't like perhaps?

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• dimake

  July 2011

  I would recommend counseling for yourself even if he won't go...

  It seems to be a common problem, even in marriages where children were planned for and expected, where one partner fails to grow up and the other is expected to pick up the slack.

  As far as a visitation schedule, I think every other weekend/one evening during the week is standard?  My XH takes our girls one night every other weekend and sees them during the week on days where he is off and I work (he has an odd schedule).
  

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