Don't get me wrong I know you're not doctors but if any of you have felt this way then I'll know which direction to go.
I had my daughter on june 2. Since having her I feel like she isn't mine. I feel like I'm just baby-sitting her an no one has come to pick her up yet. I feel resentful of her because I miss the time that me and DH use to share then I feel absolutely terrible for being resentful of her because it isn't her fault. Then I feel so overprotective of her when anyone is holding her except for me or DH. Also I feel like if she isn't with DH or I that something is going to happen to her.
I know something is wrong with me but as to what it is I don't know. Is it PPD, baby blues, hormones I don't know. I just wanna find out but I don't want to wait it out to see if it gets better or worse because I wanna be able to truly enjoy my daughter.
Re: What is wrong with me
PPD and anxiety seem to go hand in hand. It sounds like you might have a little of both. Talk to your dr. and see what your dr says. Sometimes the ob/gyn's don't like to deal with PPD, so if you feel like this might be the case, talk to your primary care physician.
I felt the same way when my LO was born. When my Mom left to go home after staying to help for the first couple of weeks, I felt like my Mom was going to take the baby back with her. It hit me that DD was my child then, and I totally fell apart b/c I felt so overwhelmed. I started my meds (Lexapro and Wellbutrin) and I feel much better. I am also building a great bond with my DD. I hope things get better for you!
I don't know if you're still checking this, but I felt the EXACT same way after my DD was born. Like she was almost a science project that I had to keep alive but no real connection. I did reach out a lot to others and found that what I was feeling was normal. It's just hard because you feel like you have to tell everyone that you love every second and that things are going great, but the reality is that that's just not the case. It's hard. It's tiring. It's a HUGE adjustment.
Everyone told me "it will get better and a bond will grow". I had trouble believing them but its so true. She is just over 7 months now and I am absolutely in love with her, but it took time. And that's okay.
Good luck. If you want to chat about it further feel free to PM me.
I remember the day before I went into labor, my mom sat me down and said, "I just want you to know that when you come home with your baby, you might think, 'what the HELL did I do!?' and I want you to know that it's normal. Many women will not tell you this, but I want you to know that I'm always here for you."
At the time, I was thinking, 'Thanks alot mom for bursting my blissful bubble!' However, when I got home from the hospital, I DID have the same feelings you are having now. I worried constantly about my son to the point where I suffered from severe panic attacks. I never did anything about it and looking back I realize how stupid it was... Eventually, I fell back into my old routine, but this time with a baby:-) It will and does get easier, but def. mention it to your Doc.
Good luck to you!