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I never catch a break... :(

vanessa lynnevanessa lynne member
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I feel like a broken record but these things just keep happening.  Today Mike(dh) and I were going to a surprise 30th for our friend.  On route there SIL calls me and says.. "Just wanted to tell you..the house you are coming to, the girl just had a baby boy last night in the house. But she probably wont bring the baby outside..so I wouldnt worry"  Well..she did.  And everyone was oohing and ahhhing..taking pictures and giving the Mom gifts. You get the idea..and I thought I was just coming to my friends bday party.  The birthday girl didnt know about the surprise and when she got there and realized the situation she looked at me with almost tears in her eyes and said "Im sorry..I will understand if you need a moment"  I think that made it harder for me.  I went into the house to get the cupcakes I made for the party. There was a little boy standing behind the door. It was one of the "new Mom's" 5 children. Another friend walked in behind me and said "Oh..that's Aidan Michael.  REALLY?!?!   For all who read my post last week about TJ Maxx...Yes..this really does keep happening to me.Crying UGH!!!!  Sorry for the long vent..its just I know you girls understand.
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  • LoriJ11LoriJ11
    Big hugs. I'm so sorry. I'm sure it was just supposed to be a nice 30th bday party. Left HugRight Hug
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  • BlondeBride123BlondeBride123
    I'm so sorry for all the heartache you have endured recently.  I wish I had some words to make it better, but all I have is my thoughts and prayers and hope that some positive things come your way.  Big hugs to you.
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  • Missa_gMissa_g member
    *huge hug*
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  • KJsbabeKJsbabe member
    Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry you were put in that situation. ((( Big Squishy Hugs)))
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  • xokell2xokell2 member

    So sorry. Kudos to your friend for acknowledging your feelings and to you for hanging in there. Hope things look up for you soon

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  • somnybookssomnybooks
    I'm sorry.  Sad  Hugs!
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  • VikingQueenVikingQueen member
    ((big big hugs))
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    Sending hugs.

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  • sgrobstesgrobste member
    I am so sorry...that had to be so hard on you.  It is unfortunate that you were probably looking forward to this party and it turned out to be an upsetting night.  BIG ((HUGS))
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  • johnscoujohnscou
    I am so sorry this keeps happening to you....but maybe in some crazy way that we don't understand, this is Aidan's way of letting you know that he is near and he is okay?
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  • E3A7AGGIEE3A7AGGIE member
    Wow, I am so sorry. :(:( That's rough. 
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  • johnnys junejohnnys june member
    oh, lovey *huge hugs*  I'm sorry this keeps happening.  I have my days and events and I find myself feeling as if my "mask" falls faster and faster each time.  Hang in there sweetie. 
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  • yogiwannabmomyogiwannabmom
    so sorry:(
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  • pb127pb127 member

    My heart hurts for you. I am so sorry Right HugRight Hug

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