February 2012 Moms

Can i just scream -Sorry venting

I wish after living in California for 2 years my FIL would realize that YES there is a time difference of 3 HOURS between us and Massachusetts. Yet for some reason he still calls me at like butt crack of dawn this morning to wake me to tell me he needs DH's Social to give to this other guy to help him with military stuff...and needs it by wed.  Now DH and I have talked about our plans after military etc and I now DH doesnt look for a "hand-out" or "help" in anyway when it comes to the military so I wanted to talked to him first and get his permission.  SO anyways its not 5pm here and 8pm there and my FIL calls pretty much yelling at me on my voicemail saying he needs DH's social like yesterday.  AHHHH my MIL (who divorced FIL like when DH was 9) said to tell him that you want to talk  and get DH's permission first but I figured ignoring the call is better.  But now AHHHH if he calls my mother (who lives down the street) I will scream!!!! OMG (sorry had to vent)
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Re: Can i just scream -Sorry venting

  • That sucks!!  I'm sorry your FIL is a douche!

    PS...your siggy pic is ginormous! Stick out tongue

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    You've heard what I've done, not what I've been through.
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  • I know have no clue how to make is smaller lol 
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  • imagemrsrp2sw:
    I know have no clue how to make is smaller lol 

    Upload it to tinypic or photobucket and you can edit the size and dimensions.  Then put it in your siggy.

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    <3<3 "You know my name, not my story.
    You've heard what I've done, not what I've been through.
    If you were in my shoes, you'd fall the first step." <3<3


  • It's probably best to not ignore him and be upfront and honest--tell him you are checking with your H first. If you choose to ignore him (which I would want to do too), he'll keep calling...or, may call your mom? (Lame)

    Also, second vote for ginormous siggy pic. Do you know how to shrink it?

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  • I know I shouldnt ignore him but I think I will respond tomorrow and hopefully I will hear from DH before then if not oh well I guess...I dunno part of me says do it and another part says NO WAY so i dunno....
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  • But he might wake you up at the crackass of dawn again! You're stuck in a catch 22.
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  • Good job on the siggy pic Wink  I love it!
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    <3<3 "You know my name, not my story.
    You've heard what I've done, not what I've been through.
    If you were in my shoes, you'd fall the first step." <3<3


  • I know this time I wont answer and just roll over haha...and thanks I finally figured it out :) 
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  • our general rule -- DH deals with his family, and I deal with mine. Yes, I actually love my MIL but when it comes to "doing stuff" for them, we keep our families seperate.

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    TTC - August 2009 DX: Severe MFI & TF due to TBI
    DH SA 0 count, started clomid therapy - November 2010
    DH SA 0 count, increased clomid dosage - January 2011
    DH SA 75 million with 60% motility!! - May 2011
    IVF with ICSI ONLY OPTION - May 2011
    3dt of 2 Grade A 8&7 cell embryos May 19, 2011
    +HPT May 30 2011 -- Memorial Day!
    Beta #1 = 34 Beta #2 = 101.8 Beta #3 = 603!
    Expecting beautiful Eden Grace February 7, 2012!
    I don't believe that God ever tells us "no". he has three options. Yes, not right now, or I have something better in mind. We just have to wait & see. BabyFetus Ticker
  • He emailed me twice in an hour so I replied stating simply I am waiting on hearing from DH and left it at that...now hopefully he will get the message and leave me be or email DH himself gosh im not DH's mother im his wife lol 
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