How do you calm down with no one there to help you? My son is teething and EXTREMELY CRANKY!!!!!!!!! I am really starting to feel stressed out. I am a new mom. I am going crazy, he won't sleep refusses to nurse, crys and screams when i lay him down till i finally cave in and pick him up. He just laughs when I say "no"...I am almost to wits end I really need help. Lukus and mommy have been up sense 130am this morning!!!!!! He took a nap at daycare but I had to work....They told me he was cranky all day for them too
I don't know what to do I have tried letting him cry but I can only do that for so long before I start cring along with him. I have not had any sleep!!!! been up with him worked 9 hours and home with cranky baby!!!! My folks are outta town so I can't just call them to take him for a few....HELP!!!!!!! I am stressed and tensed up and freaking out inside!!!!!!!
I gave him a teething ring, stuff to chew on, tried to nurse him then tried oatmeal/jar food, ice cubes, changed him 100 times, Tylonol and tried lettign him just cry it out, rocking him....NOTHING IS WORKING....
I just put him in his jumper and he is ok for now. But I know he will start screaming if I leave his site or as soon as he hits his mouth on on of the toys
He has 4 teeth...Didn't bug him or me till just last night to now....
Sorry Ladies I just really need advice right now.
Re: mothers of 8 month old or abouts..
TY no i haven't tried the gas drops yet. He got fussy last night in his jumper I let him cry for a little bit then took him out and nursed him. He finally nursed with no problems. he fell asleep well nursing so i recliened the couch and curled up with him and we both slept till about a half hour ago (6:45am)...now were up playing on the floor
Usually when they cry when you lay them down it is an ear infection and it hurts because the pressure is building up! You should take him to the doc. But it could be from lack of sleep. When mine (will be 9months 11th) doesnt get a full nap or doesn't sleep well he will be cranky a whole day.. cries when i put him in the high chair.. cries when i put him on the floor..cries when i put him in the bed.. even cries when i hold him! so you are not alone, don't feel bad!! I honestly have to put Nathan down sometimes and just let him cry until i can gather my composure. I will do dishes or something and he enjoys watching the water.. if i dont give him attention he will eventually stop crying a play with a toy (in his high chair). Also if i run him a bath in the sink he calms down immediately! Loves the water so you might want to try that. Hang in there girl! And when your family gets back def ask for help so you can have some relaxation time! And don't spend it worrying about your babe because your family i am sure takes good care of him and would let you know if anything is wrong while you are gone =] I haven't talked to any other single moms so sorry this is so long! I am glad I am not the only one who is finding this so difficult. we can do it!
I forgot about baths! Baths usually calm my DS down too. Sometimes I get in with him.