I'm guessing FB group is where all the action is, but I'm a pretty private person when it comes to message boards - out of a previous experience that was work related.
Anyone else feel the same way but feeling a little left out? I miss how it was. Boo!
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Re: Man, it is crickets on the April 2011 board...
Oh, I missed this post - going back to look now...:)
BFP 3/28/16 (EDD 12/9/16) * Chemical pregnancy
ME: 40 yrs.old
DH: 41 yrs.old
DD: 5 yrs.
I couldn't agree more, especially if the FB group is being managed like that - yuk.
BFP 3/28/16 (EDD 12/9/16) * Chemical pregnancy
ME: 40 yrs.old
DH: 41 yrs.old
DD: 5 yrs.
It's too bad, really, as it killed the board. But majority rules.
I'm with you, I didn't feel comfortable joining for privacy reasons.
Unrelated, but your siggy pic is priceless.
And congrats on your new home - it's beautiful!
BFP 3/28/16 (EDD 12/9/16) * Chemical pregnancy
ME: 40 yrs.old
DH: 41 yrs.old
DD: 5 yrs.
The "for privacy reasons" ladies should start our own FB group - kidding!
BFP 3/28/16 (EDD 12/9/16) * Chemical pregnancy
ME: 40 yrs.old
DH: 41 yrs.old
DD: 5 yrs.
I'm in the FB group, but it did get nasty there for a while, which was really disappointing. I also don't like how the deleting came to be, but there are several ladies on FB who I want to keep up with.
I hate that this board has gotten so quiet as a result.
Both of these things, plus I miss seeing you around here, but I understand.
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BFP#1 "Watermelon" born 3/2011
BFP#2 "Pumpkin" 7/14/12 ~ EDD 3/23/13 ~ Natural M/C 8/3/12 @ 7 weeks
BFP#3 "Pineapple" born 4/2013
BFP#4 "Grapefruit" EDD 3/29/16
I *almost* gave in a created a FB account because I felt so left out. However, I have many many reasons to not be on FB, and I really don't want to give that up. So, I continue to post here, kind of more than ever because somebody has to, and I've also been posting more on the AP board.
Glad to know I'm not the only one. I was just thinking this morning about how much I LOVED going through my pregnancy with all these strangers.... Bless the Internet, huh. When I talk about TB IRL, it's always, "oh my gosh, one of my friends who had a baby at the same time as me is already pg!!" or whatever. And I do feel like you April ladies are my friends.
BFP#1 "Watermelon" born 3/2011
BFP#2 "Pumpkin" 7/14/12 ~ EDD 3/23/13 ~ Natural M/C 8/3/12 @ 7 weeks
BFP#3 "Pineapple" born 4/2013
BFP#4 "Grapefruit" EDD 3/29/16
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I think it's funny how some are bitching about how nastey it got on the FB page but were a part of it like this comment:
I'll admit that I made a bitchy comment on that post, but it's pretty obvious who I am on there by my user name. That chick always irritated the piss out of me anyway.
June 22 at 11:07am ? Like ? 6 people
So seems like the pot calling the kettle black IMO.
Mac and cheese lover!
Thumbs up. I noticed that, also.
I'm on the FB page and I don't think it's any different from here, only much quicker. There was mamabird drama but that's dead and buried.
I didn't input or vote on deleting members, but FWIW, the group jumped up like 100 members VERY quickly and everyone was concerned about strangers/lurkers reading personal information with our real names attached. The document was made to put your info on so we knew you were legit and non-posters got deleted to protect everyone.
I think legit April bumpies shouldn't have been booted whether they posted or not. But I understand why people got deleted. There was a TON of non-posters and it happened really really quickly. It was creepy.
Baby #4; 7/7/2018
This exactly... it went from 229 to 318 seemingly overnight...not the most comforting feeling - especially since there was only 50 or so people that were actually posting... it's fine to "lurk" on TB...but on FB with all your personal info...not OK with me and apparently a lot of others felt the same.
So just out of curiousity if it left a "bad taste" why are you still there? I get that you want to keep up with some people but you can do that over here. Seems a little hypocritical to say you don't enjoy something but will continue to be a part of it as a poster or a lurker. To me it seems like you are over there looking for more drama so you can judge the posters again. But thats just IMO.