I have a healthy 13 month old and gave birth in a hospital with my OB and an epi, have no regrets about how I did it and would have no problem doing it the same way with baby #2 this winter. But I am interested in going more natural for this baby just because I think I can (or anyone can, in most cases) but am most worried about what happens after the baby is born. Pushing the baby out (assuming normal circumstances) isn't too scary but the doc spent 30 minutes stitching me up after baby #1 was born and that is terrifying to me without pain meds. With baby #1, I couldn't feel it and just got to enjoy nursing him and cuddling him and I don't want to be distracted by crazy pain AFTER the baby has been born. Does anyone have experience they would share on this specific aspect of natural child birth? Thanks.
Re: Possibly interested in a more natural birth for baby #2
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I was similar with this ... though I only had to have 1 stitch my doc said. So between the adrenaline and still being a bit numb from pushing her out (everything was kind of achy and I couldn't tell what was what at that point) I didn't even know he did the stitch until after he told me he was done lol.
Yay for you for considering a med-free birth! I had a local anesthetic (sp?) given right after delivery and right before I got stitched. I had a 1st degree tear and a small abrasion (like a skinned knee). The midwife stitched for less than 10 minutes and I only felt the initial needle prick.
From what I've read here over the last year and what I've heard from my friends who went med-free, most of them chose to have a shot of pain med for the repair. Some mw's/ob's may offer this to you before the baby is delivered, but to me that defeats the purpose of being med-free.
Really? To me, the purpose of going med free was to avoid exposing LO to drugs. Once LO is out, it's all good. What is your reasoning here?
I think she is trying to say that some MWs/OBs will offer to numb you before the baby is delivered which in her opinion defeats the purpose. I don't think she's suggesting someone decline numbing medication before receiving stitches.
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Yeah, I'm not sure if would defeat the purpose of going med-free but I don't see how it would make any impact on your pain level during the birth if they give you a shot before the baby crowns, say. At that point, it'll hurt but only for a few seconds and then you're done. If you need a lot of stitches, then go for the shot, no need to suffer through that!
If you notice, she said before the baby is delivered, so they are getting the pain med's before the baby is born. Or maybe I'm reading that wrong.
I had a med free hospital birth with an OB with my DD. I had a 3rd degree tear as well as "skid marks" inside. (That's how the OB described them) Before he started stitching he gave me a shot of a local to numb the area. I didn't even feel the shot. I didn't feel anything while he stitched me up, I just remember my legs shaking from the birth.
They also gave me some pain relievers in pill form, so that when the local wore off I wasn't in pain.