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**GTKY - YDH**

So I was thinking about DH and my first date. I must say, he's probably lucky I gave him a second one!!

DH is 1/2 Native American and on our first date he told me he can't wait until he moves up the ladder at work, and he gets a gold name badge. He told me that he wants to not have his legal first name on it, but his Native American name.

Slapaho. 

When he told me this I had absolutely no idea how to react to it. NOW, I know that he's joking. And I laugh and roll my eyes. At first, I did a wtf

So ... has your DH ever said (or did) something that you went WTF, but now that you know him better it doesn't even phase you when he says/does it?

Re: **GTKY - YDH**

  • He tattooed himself and did his own Prince Albert (ouch!). Now that I know him better, that doesn't shock me in the least. It still may not have been so smart, but it's no longer surprising.
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  • I had a wtf moment on our first date when DH told me he lived with his parents. He is older than me and at the time I had my own home and all I could think was great this guy is a loser who lives in his parents basement with his dog. I totally judged him. He neglected to elaborate and state that he was between homes and just bought a new one. And come to find out, the parents house could give Hefner's mansion a run for the money (not really but it's nice). I'd live with them now if they'd let us. 

  • imagebrookelynpaisley:
    He tattooed himself and did his own Prince Albert (ouch!). Now that I know him better, that doesn't shock me in the least. It still may not have been so smart, but it's no longer surprising.

    I'm not gonna lie, my jaw dropped a little (ok, a lot...) when I read that. OUCH. His own Prince Albert? Goodness gracious. Ow. (Does he still have it???)

  • imagecelestialnyte:

    imagebrookelynpaisley:
    He tattooed himself and did his own Prince Albert (ouch!). Now that I know him better, that doesn't shock me in the least. It still may not have been so smart, but it's no longer surprising.

    I'm not gonna lie, my jaw dropped a little (ok, a lot...) when I read that. OUCH. His own Prince Albert? Goodness gracious. Ow. (Does he still have it???)

    Um, yeah, mine dropped, too. And yes, he still has it.

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    imagebrookelynpaisley:
    He tattooed himself and did his own Prince Albert (ouch!). Now that I know him better, that doesn't shock me in the least. It still may not have been so smart, but it's no longer surprising.

    Holy Sh!t....  That's a courageous man you've got there...  Good lord.

    When we had been dating for a couple months, things got really hectic with school (we both went to MIT), and I'd decided that we should consider taking a little break since we were both so wrapped up with things and it felt like we just didn't have the time we needed to dedicate to the relationship.  All my friends prepped me for him to be really mad, and that I just had to stick to my "script" about how we both came to MIT for school first and foremost, and that hopefully things would work out with us in the long run (which they clearly did) but that we just didn't have the time for a relationship right now.  He's a big, athletic guy, so literally all my friends prepped me for him to argue with me about it and to be angry.  Instead, he started crying.  Sobbing, really.  Which, I was SO not prepared for.  And pretty much I immediately started backpedaling since he clearly really cared about the relationship a lot.  The crying shocked me so much, but now I know that if either one of us is the emotional one, it's him.  And, really, it's quite sweet. 



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  • imagebrookelynpaisley:
    imagecelestialnyte:

    imagebrookelynpaisley:
    He tattooed himself and did his own Prince Albert (ouch!). Now that I know him better, that doesn't shock me in the least. It still may not have been so smart, but it's no longer surprising.

    I'm not gonna lie, my jaw dropped a little (ok, a lot...) when I read that. OUCH. His own Prince Albert? Goodness gracious. Ow. (Does he still have it???)

    Um, yeah, mine dropped, too. And yes, he still has it.

    I'm gonna ask a very ... probably .. obvious question. WHAT is s*x like with it??? (Sorry if that's super personal!)

  • imagebrookelynpaisley:
    He tattooed himself and did his own Prince Albert (ouch!). Now that I know him better, that doesn't shock me in the least. It still may not have been so smart, but it's no longer surprising.

     

    Holy Sh!T!  I pierced my own tongue in high school and thought that was, ummm... ballsy.  He must have a high pain tolerance. 

  • On our first date getting him to talk was like pulling teeth for the first hour or so. Once I got him to talk (I talk a lot so now I can't blame him), I found out he dropped out of his undergrad engineering program and moved to Nantucket to be an arborist. He lived in a VW bus on the beach. (In my mind that = van down by the river.)

    Luckily I got over this when he went on to tell me he did finish school and was currently a law student. If I knew then, what I know now about dating a law student...

    He does still talk about that VW a lot and I think there is a part of him that is going to always be tree hugger wishing he was living on a beach. 

  • On our first date, and my first time ever meeting him in person since we met online, DH showed up with his t-shirt tucked all the way in. I thought he was a bit of a dork. He also said to me "Look, we have matching zits." Uhh thanks. Lol.
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  • MH is a musician, and when we first started dating his schedule of being out of town every weekend or longer took a little getting used to. Then I found a lot of great things about it, like having "me time" at the end of the work week and being able to have weekend nights with girlfriends.

    He's been off the road for a few years now (which took its own getting used to after having my weekends to myself for 5 years), but is starting to tour again in August. He'll be gone for six weeks, which makes me very proud of him, but sad to have him away that long.

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    imagebrookelynpaisley:
    imagecelestialnyte:

    imagebrookelynpaisley:
    He tattooed himself and did his own Prince Albert (ouch!). Now that I know him better, that doesn't shock me in the least. It still may not have been so smart, but it's no longer surprising.

    I'm not gonna lie, my jaw dropped a little (ok, a lot...) when I read that. OUCH. His own Prince Albert? Goodness gracious. Ow. (Does he still have it???)

    Um, yeah, mine dropped, too. And yes, he still has it.

    I'm gonna ask a very ... probably .. obvious question. WHAT is s*x like with it??? (Sorry if that's super personal!)

    I'm glad YOU asked.....I was going to but I'm too chicken. Embarrassed

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    imagecelestialnyte:
    imagebrookelynpaisley:
    imagecelestialnyte:

    imagebrookelynpaisley:
    He tattooed himself and did his own Prince Albert (ouch!). Now that I know him better, that doesn't shock me in the least. It still may not have been so smart, but it's no longer surprising.

    I'm not gonna lie, my jaw dropped a little (ok, a lot...) when I read that. OUCH. His own Prince Albert? Goodness gracious. Ow. (Does he still have it???)

    Um, yeah, mine dropped, too. And yes, he still has it.

    I'm gonna ask a very ... probably .. obvious question. WHAT is s*x like with it??? (Sorry if that's super personal!)

    I'm glad YOU asked.....I was going to but I'm too chicken. Embarrassed

    It's not really a whole lot different. I can feel a little extra pressure, but it's not - for me, anyway - the mindblowing extra sensation you hear about.

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  • One of the first times my sister met MH, we were out to eat. The three of us were sitting at a table and we were casually talking. At some point after our food came, MH just kinda chuckled. I asked him what was so funny and he replied "Oh nothing, I just told myself a joke." My sister looked at me like I had brought a complete weirdo home with me and I just laughed. We still joke about it today!
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  • imagebrookelynpaisley:
    imageBabybear70:
    imagecelestialnyte:
    imagebrookelynpaisley:
    imagecelestialnyte:

    imagebrookelynpaisley:
    He tattooed himself and did his own Prince Albert (ouch!). Now that I know him better, that doesn't shock me in the least. It still may not have been so smart, but it's no longer surprising.

    I'm not gonna lie, my jaw dropped a little (ok, a lot...) when I read that. OUCH. His own Prince Albert? Goodness gracious. Ow. (Does he still have it???)

    Um, yeah, mine dropped, too. And yes, he still has it.

    I'm gonna ask a very ... probably .. obvious question. WHAT is s*x like with it??? (Sorry if that's super personal!)

    I'm glad YOU asked.....I was going to but I'm too chicken. Embarrassed

    It's not really a whole lot different. I can feel a little extra pressure, but it's not - for me, anyway - the mindblowing extra sensation you hear about.

    Not gonna lie ... that was a let down LOL. I was hoping you were going to regale us with tales so we could live a kinky-er s*x life through you Wink

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    imagejohnson617:
    One of the first times my sister met MH, we were out to eat. The three of us were sitting at a table and we were casually talking. At some point after our food came, MH just kinda chuckled. I asked him what was so funny and he replied "Oh nothing, I just told myself a joke." My sister looked at me like I had brought a complete weirdo home with me and I just laughed. We still joke about it today!

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  • When DH and I first met he was really quiet, now I cant get him to shut up!
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  • imagecelestialnyte:

    So ... has your DH ever said (or did) something that you went WTF, but now that you know him better it doesn't even phase you when he says/does it?

    When I first met DH we were in Austria just traveling around. To me he was a bad @ss soldier that wouldn't give me the time of day. (I'm such a bookworm and science nerd.) I was shocked when he kept talking to me and had so much interest in me! Now I know... sure he's a soldier but he's kind of a nerd, too! I'm now used to his random outbursts of sciencey speculations on how things work. Although I do still feel bad if I don't know the answers!

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  • imagejohnson617:
    One of the first times my sister met MH, we were out to eat. The three of us were sitting at a table and we were casually talking. At some point after our food came, MH just kinda chuckled. I asked him what was so funny and he replied "Oh nothing, I just told myself a joke." My sister looked at me like I had brought a complete weirdo home with me and I just laughed. We still joke about it today!

    This is too cute and totally made me laugh!

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