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Dear July,

carrieandtimcarrieandtim member
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Can we just skip you this year?  I do not know how to handle another EDD with an empty ute.  Plus, it looks extremely possible that AF could make her grand entrance on that exact day (or the day before), but either way, I do not want to bleed even close to the day I should be having a baby.  How will I ever handle it?

Love,

Carrie

P.S.  I know a way you can make it up to me though, July.  How about a BFP?!?!

Married my best friend ~ May 31, 2008
Adopted our furbaby Kona ~ January 17, 2010
Trying to grow our family ~ June 2010

1st BFP 7.6.10 ~ EDD 3.15.11 ~ mmc 8.6.10 ~ d&c 8.11.10
2nd BFP 11.4.10 ~ EDD 7.15.11 ~ HB 6w3d ~ No HB 7w ~ mmc 12.8.10 ~ d&c 12.9.10
3rd BFP 7.12.11 ~ EDD 3.22.12 ~ HB 6w5d 124 bpm ~ Team Green ~ SHE STUCK!
4th BFP 6.20.13 ~ EDD 3.1.14 ~ HB 7w5d 153 bpm ~ A/S revealed due date possibly 2.23
*~*~*~*EXPECT MIRACLES*~*~*~*
Praying for peace in God's ultimate plan ~ "Be still and know that I am God." -Psalm 46:10


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Re: Dear July,

  • sbphotossbphotos member

    Carrie, I'm so sorry.  I really hope that you get a break and she doesn't show on that day.

    It's so unfair that you have to go through this.  HUGS

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    BFP #2 9-17-11 EDD 5-29-12
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  • yogiwannabmomyogiwannabmom
    I'm so sorry:(
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  • Missa_gMissa_g member
    *giant hug*I'm hoping and praying the day is easier than you expect.
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  • PolyMama2BePolyMama2Be
    My EDD this in July too so I feel your pain. July can suck it.

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  • williams4mewilliams4me member
    I'm sorry, big ((((hugs))))) I hope that will not be the case for you.
    BFP #2 7/20/11 ** EDD: 3/28/12: IT'S A BOY!
    BFP #1 12/30/10 ** EDD: 9/6/11** H/B stopped at 10w 6d conf on 2/22/11 ** D&C 2/24/11.
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  • LoriJ11LoriJ11
    ((hugs))
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  • ktsnshnktsnshn
    So sorry. ((hugs))
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  • baileyd1baileyd1 member
    Aw...hang in there honey! I am in the same boat. My EDD was July 30th. We are strong women and will make it through. Although there may be a lot of wine drinking involved!
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  • ECHC829ECHC829
    All in favor of skipping July?  Aye!....   big hugs, this month is going to blow.

    BFP#1 11.2.10 | EDD 7.9.11 | HB 7w2d & 8w4d | missed M/C 11w2d | D&E 12.21.10
    FSH at 14.5 - 4.21.11 | CCCT - (CD3 8.8,CD10 12.2)| dx w/ DOR @ 28 yrs old
    IUI#1 + clomid 8.29.11 (our anniversary)
    BFP#2 9.10.11 | EDD 5.21.12 | beta 1 @ 14dpi:232 | beta 2 @17dpi:703 | beta 3 @24dpi:7,174
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  • Allieb303Allieb303 member
    I'm sorry you have to go through this. Hoping that July hears and responds positively with your request!!!
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  • chicadelpadrechicadelpadre
    I'm sorry. That really sucks. I was just looking at my predicted cycles and it looks like I'll be facing the same thing for my EDDs in August unless I get a BFP in a few weeks.
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  • VikingQueenVikingQueen member
    ((big hugs)) I know what you mean.. July 14th was the day I started miscarrying..
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  • sweepie412sweepie412
    I'm sorry Carrie! (((Huge Hugs))) We'll be here for you no matter what happens that day. 
    Married my best friend 6/28/08
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  • LDW80LDW80
    Hugs! I want July to be skipped this year too. Especially tomorrow! Thinking of you and hoping you get a bfp!
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  • pb127pb127 member

    Hugs hugs hugs!! Right Hug

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  • jaxie320jaxie320
    I hope July brings you a BFP!
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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    (((HUGS)))
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  • corndog8corndog8

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    Aw...hang in there honey! I am in the same boat. My EDD was July 30th. We are strong women and will make it through. Although there may be a lot of wine drinking involved!

    I agree... July will suck.  Big hugs hon and we'll make it through this month.   Bigbaileyd1 - we share EDD.  


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